update on i paid i swear

Yay! Glad it will be coming out of his check now. My husband pays child support and it comes right out of his check as well. He was never behind when he paid it himself, but his ex wanted it that way, and in fact he had a $2700 credit balance when they figured it all out. It stinks that your ex would lie though, that would really irritate me too! Out here the state is pretty slow, they just got a new debit system so she gets the money right away, but before that she was getting it over a week after they took it from his checks. So slow!

That sounds about like my daughters dad. He used to lie to me all of the time also and tell everyone else that he pays his child support. that was a bold lie and I had proof that he didn't pay a dime because I have an account set up online and it shows me the money that was paid and when it was paid and when it was sent to me. He is now caught up and pays me every month on time, but I went through the same thing you are going through and it sucks. He sounds like he is a deadbeat dad just like my daughters dad is. He does not have anything to do with our daughter and she is now 15 years old. I fought him for child support for about 13 years before he started paying and got caught up on arrearage.

well you need to go to your lawer and start procising on the papper work to get him to pay or get his boss take it out of his checks than see what he says about it than

I don't understand it either! IN CAnada can they take his Income Tax Refund if he is behind in Child Support? Here in the States they do that and last year they took over $3000 from me ex. I am sure he was pissed to find that out!! I don't know why men lie about that, like if they say it enough times it will be true, or we will believe them and the money will magically appear in front of you so you will stop asking! Silly men.

I feel sorry for you poppoppop. If I were you, you should try to compose yourself immediately. You better bring that matter to your lawyer because that is merely a legal concern. Nothing will happen if you keep on approaching him and he will in return keeps on yelling on you about it. You will end arguing and harming and throwing nasty words to one another. Get an advise from your lawyer and you should be getting by now what you really deserve.

Well i like the idea of having it come straight out of the pay, so they cant go & spend it before they get around to paying you. I think that's how they do it here in Australia, don't quote me on it coz my partner is still here & supporting us :) but i am pretty sure that the amount they have to pay comes straight out of their pay cheque & if they are on unemployment, it comes to you from the government but it's still missing from the amoun they get - although, on unemployment, i don't think the mother's get a lot. I hope you manage to get every last cent he owes you coz it's rude to expect someone else to pay for something he helped to create. My partner & i were discussing this the other day actually & he told me that if we broke up, he'd be more than happy to pay for all the things his daughter needed, as long as she didn't go without. I think that's a pretty good thing to know should we ever break up (which of course i hope is never the case).

I was glad to hear that child support payments will now be taken from his check. I just hope he doesn't change jobs to avoid it, like my ex son-in-law has done numerous time over the past 2 years. My daughter has not received a cent from him in over 4 years now, and I'm so glad that she finally divorced him and got child support payments awarded. It just doesn't help if the ex works under the table to hide any income he has. Shame on him!

Its really sad to hear it. Cant even think what u would be going through.