martyr in games of love

Philippines
May 4, 2007 10:46am CST
all i wish in my life was to be happy, it doesnt matter whether i chose the right 1 or the wrong 1 to be with me.. i believe that is life, always make a wrong turn and lean how to deal with every trials that we've made from the past.. its been quite a while since i had a few mistakes and i must admit that i dont know if you can call it martyr coz u always forgive the person who hurt u many times, bcoz you just cant let go and afraid that he might leave you..some people say being martyr is being stupid coz you let someone used you...but i can honestly say, nobody is perfect and its not your fault if you fall in love with someone...
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@cutiedhes (507)
• Philippines
5 May 07
Of course it is not a mistake if you really fall in love with someone and does forgive him again and again even if he has hurts you a lot. Don't you think you should at least think of yourself for once because i don't think its normal that you always give him a chance inspite of his attitudes, for me its not good for you to just forgive him that easily and then he always does his mistakes all over again. Because i think that's being a martyr and i suggest you should not spoil him and you should be able to realize that with his actions don't you think he is taking you for granted and as well take advantage of your kindness and love. Do let him realized that not all the time you are that good to him make him realized how important you are and your relationship.