long distance relationships

my partner and i use to be a part for 6 months and we had to go a few days without talking. it is hard, but we catch up when he back in area when his phone will work. stay strong and think positive, the 3 days will go slow but try and distract yourself best as possible.

I know its very difficult. my husband and i were boyfriends for more than 5 years and for minutes that he is away from me I would go crazy call him and checking on him. I cannot imagine us being separated more than 10 meters away..lol...But I hope you can get through this. Just stay connected at least twice a day and don't forget to say how much you love him. It will be your protection. ALSO, pray for him everyday and trust him. Always tell him that.

I had a long distance relationship too. So, I can understand what you feel.. And from my relationship, I learn many things about it.. I think you have to be patient, understanding and trust each other. if his area don't have a signal, you can communicate with traditional way, like send a mail. If you feel lonely, you have to try searching for many activities. I do it every I miss him. You can hang out with your friends, try a new reception, or posting a lot in Mylot. =P I think the hard time is the night time. sometimes we can't get sleep because we miss them. So, I tried to make myself very busy. And I will feel very tired, so I can get sleep easily.. ^-^ So, you must try this too. But I don't know if it will work to you. because everyone has their own way to handle their own problems.. ^o^

not a good idea... really stupid because wheres the love?? you can't really meet face to face and have a normal dicussion

I'm sorry you're feeling that way! I can completely understand though. My husband and I (we were dating and then engaged at the time) were apart for 5 years while we went to colleges several hours apart. We talked on the phone when we could and saw each other some during the smmers. It was rough because there was little day-to-day interaction. We had dated in high school but then went to separate colleges. We knew we were going to end up together and we just had to make it past that point in our lives so that we would be ready and able to be married finally. Honestly, if you are sure you guys will be married one day and you trust him to be away from you or out of contact with you for periods of time, you should use this time to your advantage. Fill the time with things you like to do and know that he will be back in contact with you in just a few days. I doubt you will get past the loneliness (not until you're married anyway and then you'll wish you had some of that alone time back LOL!) but try to enjoy it and know everything will be right back to normal soon.

yes i agree

2 or 3 days is not alot and I am sure that u will survive, just take those days and make them special for you, Pamper yourself, hang out with friends and just enjoy beeing alone for a few days. A break can be good sometimes.

I am wondering what has made you title this conversation as a long distance relationship, especially if he is only going to be away from you for 2 or 3 days. That sounds a little on the possessive side to me, it means you cant be without him for just a couple of days, am i understanding this right? Or is it the case that you are already far apart but he just wont be able to stay in touch for a couple of days? I dunno, you need trust but you also need to remember you are your own person & you need to be able to live your life like you normally would if he was around. 2 or 3 days isn't a very ling amount of time to be apart. You'll be fine while he's away, remember, he is coming back & this is something that happens with ALL couples.

I think long distance relationships are alright when you said long distance relationship it doesn't mean that your relationship will gonna end or that you will have problems in the future because you were apart. As long as you trust one another eventhough that you have no much time to talk to each other as long as you love each other and trust one another i think there will have no problem with that. Just keep in your hearts that no matter what both of you will stay by each other's side.

don't worry.. long distance relationship can actually challenge your relationship to see whether it's stable or not.. many people are afraid to have long distance relationship because they felt unsecure.. but it's not true.. it's the best to see if your relationship is strong or not.. and.. how to deal with lonely.. i think you can spend time watching movies? try not to think of him while he's away.. i know you're still waiting for his call most of the time right? but it's best ot focus on others.. don't make yourself suffer.. you'll just have to pass this test right? good luck =)

I'm sorry if you feel lonely, but you shouldn't be lonely. Loneliness can be overcome by keeping yourself busy and channeling your thoughts to different kinds of fruitful activities. In my case, I don't keep myself idle. I do different kinds of fun stuffs. Not the dirty stuffs, just clean fun. I'm also waiting for my fiance visa, they said it takes around six to twelve months. How bout you? How long have you been waiting for your visa???

keep yourself busy and do the things that you enjoy! hang in there girl, it's just for a couple of days..not months or even years! take care ;)

u can just take a pic of him or a vedio record so that u dont feel lonely it can make u feel that someones ther waitin 4 u!!

You have to be patient and wait until he comes back home. Try to do something with your friends or your family to not feel lonely...

I had a long distance relationship in which I had not heard from her for a couple of days. It had me worried with my imagination running wild there, but I found out that she was in the hospital after a car accident. She made it back online, but was typing with only one hand. It happened again that she had to go back for more surgury, & would be gone for another couple of days. I know how it feels, but at the same time, I don't exactly have a good answer, other than waiting it out.

I am agree with Mherledy, as in relationship you need to sacrifice a bit. As long as the both partners are faithful and loyal to each other and there is lot of love in mutual chemistry. So try to keep yourself busy and think positively. You must try to understand that if you such feeling he is must passionate to meet with you.So you must be careful and patient too.

Actually, it's been two years since I had a long distance with my relationship. It's difficult because you were used to seeing each other then suddenly you just can't see him whenever you want. But the secret there is trying to communicate as much as you can. We are blessed with the gadgets and technology as present. Yahoo messenger is one thing. Cellphone is another. On the other hand, if you are really longing for the presence of the one you love, it's just but normal. All you can do is spend time with your friends. Although they are no where the same as with your fiance's presence, it can relieve somehow the longing and the sadness. Lighten up. Make this a time for yourself. Pamper yourself. Make yourself beautiful while he is away and you won't believe that by the time he comes back, he'll be surprised with the new glow.