cloth diaper myth:I spend a lot of time washing

cloth diaper - fitted cloth diaper
@mememama (3076)
United States
May 4, 2007 12:12pm CST
I've been asked by a few people what my son is wearing on his bum (the diaper sticks out a bit on the back of his shorts, he's skinny so his pants sag lol), when people hear that it's cloth, the first thing they say is "wow you must do a lot of laundry". Why do people think that? I wash every 2-3 days and it doesn't take that long, I think sometimes I wash more towels to clean up messes that my son creates more than anything else. I just throw a pail of dirty diapers in the wash, hit the cold cycle, play with my son, hear the buzzer, switch it to hot and add a few tablespoons of detergent, play with my son, hear the buzzer and throw them in the dryer or if it's nice, I take them outside and hang them on the line while my son plays with his outdoor toys. So cloth diapering mamas, what other myths have you come across?
5 people like this
17 responses
@callarse1 (4783)
• United States
5 May 07
I have a question for you, do you have to scrap the stuff out of the diapers? I think I would be sick, some of those diapers are nasty with little "surprises" (if you know what I mean). I don't think it would be hard to wash them, and I think they are better for the environment, but I just couldn't imagine scrapping the surprises out of those diapers :X. Have a nice day. Pablo
4 people like this
@carlaabt (3504)
• United States
6 May 07
My son wears disposables, and we still knock out the "surprises" as you put it, into the toilet. Like mememama said, you don't actually have to scrape it or anything. You just shake it over the toilet. Now when he was younger and it was more liquid, we didn't. But now that it's harder we do. I know a lot of parents don't do it, but it is what you are SUPPOSED to do whether you use disposables or cloth.
5 people like this
@mememama (3076)
• United States
6 May 07
I'm glad you do that, you're the only person I've heard of doing that with disposables! I bet your garbage can doesn't stink as bad now lol. My old neighbors had theres in direct sunlight, man when it got hot it smelled like a sewer outside!
3 people like this
@mememama (3076)
• United States
5 May 07
nope, never have. Too much information ahead:when kids eat more solids, it just plops out of the diaper into the toilet. If you read the package of disposable diapers, it says to discard poop in the toilet, just no one does that. So there's poop in the landfill, that's considered illegal some places. When he was younger and on a liquid diet ;) the washer got it all out since it came out liquid. When I do the hot wash, it disinfects the washer so it's not bad at all.
3 people like this
@carlaabt (3504)
• United States
5 May 07
I think cloth diapering is great! We don't do it at our house, though. A lot of it is the washing, but not because of the time issue. It's about actually doing the washing. Since it's a two step process in the washer, that alone is enough to make it something not practical for us. Our washer and dryer are down in the basement, and the baby isn't allowed to go down there right now. That means that even if I felt like I could do the extra laundry, I wouldn't have the time. Another issue is just that I don't do laundry. I've got some back problems that make it hard for me to bend over and stand back up multiple times in a row like when you do laundry. When I do laundry, it usually ends up with me not being able to pick up my son because of the back strain. SO I skip it. The only time my husband has time to do laundry is on weekends (he works a lot of 13-14 hour shifts). It wouldn't be practical at all for us to have enough cloth diapers to last a week! One myth that I've run across the other way, is how much money you save by buying cloth. Most people that say that, quote that the average child goes through 6000 diapers before they potty train. And that cloth diapers cost between $500-1000 for a set to last the whole time. So you save $2000-5000 by buying cloth instead. I'm not sure where these people shop, but I don't spend anywhere near $1 on each disposable diaper. :) In fact we watch for sales and use coupons, and never pay more than 15 cents each, and that's even with him wearing a bigger size (we only use brand names, too). When he was in newborns and 1's, we spent less than 9 cents on each, and can still do that sometimes with sales and coupons. So assuming that my average cost per diaper is 12 cents, I will spend $720 on 6000 diapers. I also don't buy detergent for them, which means that in that area I save a little bit more over cloth diapering. So I think that all in all, if you know how to shop, they equal out to being around the same price. The one advantage is that you can use the same cloth on future kids if you plan on having them. But, unless you can use those same diapers on 8 kids or more (and I'm under the impression taht they don't usuaully last THAT long?) you aren't saving anywhere near the $5000 that some people claim. I don't mean to be a cloth diaper critic or anything. Like I said, if I could do the laundry and still take good care of my son, I would use the cloth diapers. But the price is a myth that I've heard over and over.
4 people like this
@mememama (3076)
• United States
5 May 07
I have probably only spent $200 on cloth diapers and I have a lot, there are some that sell for a lot of money but I don't pay $30 for something my son will poop in lol. I don't use that much detergent, only a few tablespoons per load, so I don't even take that into account, I can go months without buying detergent.
3 people like this
@lillake (1630)
• United States
7 May 07
$720 is still a lot on money for diapers! My first son was diapered for $60. That took us from 9 months when i made the switch to when he potty trained. My second has been cloth diapered from birth and I've spent about $150 total on him, he's 10 months old. I think I'd go into shock if I had to spend that much on just diapers! LOL
4 people like this
• United States
18 Apr 08
I'm guilty of spending quite a bit on our cloth diapers, but I've never spent more than $16 on a diaper and most of our dipes are prefolds. I just love how classic they look, lol. When my youngest ds outgrew his infant and moved into premium I recovered 75% of the cost when I sold them. You can't resell disposables:)
@lillake (1630)
• United States
6 May 07
Asside from all the common myths I get people, mostly family, assuming that i HAVE to use cloth. LOL They try to give my spossies all the time so that i won't "have to use cloth". As if i didn't have any choice in the matter! LOL
4 people like this
@mememama (3076)
• United States
6 May 07
lmao, yeah a few of mine think we do it because we are poor. One in law even asked me if I've ever heard of Huggies! She said "you know they make disposable ones, they're called Huggies and they are sold in walmart" lol.
3 people like this
@eden32 (3973)
• United States
5 May 07
The one that bugs me is the idea that cloth is somehow less sanitary or gross. Diapers are pretty gross regardless of the type. We flush the solids (which by the way you are suppose to do with disposables too)and toss it all into a hot wash with detergent. There isn't really any difference in "gross" factor with cloths.
4 people like this
@mememama (3076)
• United States
5 May 07
I've had some inlaws tell me that it's unsanitary. It's not like we're eating dinner out of his cloth diapers! Really I was recently grossed out at a playground, I could smell that infamous chemical/perfume smell on some kids wearing disposables, it's hard to describe but yuck! Plus I know some parents that use disposables wait hours to change their child, so they pee multiple times in the diaper before a change-that's unsanitary! I had a lady in my old neighborhood wait until her kids pampers were falling off from weight before she changed her.
3 people like this
@cynddvs (2948)
• United States
4 May 07
I really wish I had looked into cloth diapers more when I was pregnant. I have probably spent so much money in diapers it's not even funny. If you don't mind me asking how many diapers did you buy and how much did they cost? My daughter is 18 months old now and I'm not sure I want to switch to cloth this late in the game. But if it would save me some money I might be willing to do it.
4 people like this
@mememama (3076)
• United States
4 May 07
I started out with 6 fuzzi bunz, back then they were $15 a piece, I used those part time until I could buy some more, I have no clue how many I have now lol, it's addicting! I have enough to get me through 2-3 days, depending on how much food/water my son takes in. You can buy them used at diaperswappers.com really cheap compared to new, plus cloth diapered babies tend to potty train earlier ;)
3 people like this
@mac1946 (1602)
• Calgary, Alberta
25 Apr 08
Hi cynddvs,as she is only 18 months now,you probably spent about $1000.00 over the cost of cloth diapering so far,that everage from birth to 3 or 4 years of age,( the normal for disposible using children)is between $4 to $6000.00 over the cost of cloth. the normal age for starting to train children in cloth is 18 months to 2 1/2 years,of course this varies by child as they are all different. prices of cloth diapers very as to which type you buy,the Curity diapers,just plain cotton or flannel are about the cheapest at around $14.00 a dozen and the plastic pants you can get cheap on e-bay,or in most larger stores. In you case right now,you might like to take her with you and have her pick out some cloth training pants and a few pair of plastic panties,and get started with potty training.
1 person likes this
@nica269 (1395)
• United States
5 May 07
I think people think it takes up a lot of time washing because we 'forget' to a certain point that there are washing machines that do the work. At least for me, the first thing that pops in my head when I hear cloth diapers is a woman in the back of her house washing by hand a HUGE stack of white clothes! It's one of those weird mental pictures.
4 people like this
@mememama (3076)
• United States
5 May 07
lol, that's what my mother did when her kids were in cloth, dunk and flush, scrub, and threw them into a pail of bleach water! I have to avoid doing wash at her house, she always wants to put bleach in the diaper wash! I left one of his diapers at her house and she sent it back to me, full of fabric softener and it reeked of bleach!
3 people like this
@nica269 (1395)
• United States
8 May 07
LOL you have to admit that she has GREAT intentions! How you described your mom is exactly what I picture when I hear 'cloth diapers'.
3 people like this
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
5 May 07
Oh I had no idea that these still excisted. I learn something new everyday here on mylot. Thought that clothdiapers was in the past and that noone used them anymore. this discussions showed me otherwise =)
4 people like this
• United States
15 May 07
People always ask me how gross it is. It's not really that gross. Plus a lot of people still think that you need to boil them on the stove and they are the huge sheets of cloth that you have to fold. They also ask about the danger of pins. I have to explain the them about pocket diapers, all in ones, prefolds, and the wonderful invention of the Snappi. It's an extra load of laundry every couple of days and that is about the only difference. We drop the solids off in the toliet (and people still think you need to toilet dunk) and sometimes spray off not-so=solids. If you look on the side of a box of Pampers or whatever brand you have, it says you are supposed to drop the solids off in the toliet before tossing the disposable diaper anyway. I think it is great that you cloth diaper!
@mememama (3076)
• United States
18 May 07
some people think I still do the great "dunk and flush" lol, heck no! That's what the washer is for!
2 people like this
@Jennifer21 (2476)
• United States
4 May 07
I must admit, I have never used cloth diapers. I have always thought that they will leak all over the place. Is this another myth of cloth diapers?
@mememama (3076)
• United States
4 May 07
I rarely have a leaking problem, most of his diapers have PUL material on the outside, which is waterproof. The others I use waterproof covers on, like these http://www.bummis.com/en/Products/covers/SuperWhisperWrap.html
3 people like this
• Canada
8 May 07
We raised all our kids in cloth diapers and it was a breeze wash the pail full every 2-4 days and were good to go we did use diposable s when we traveled or when they were starting to sleep thru the night but by the time they were 2 they were potty trained and we only ever had to get 3 bags of diposables cause 90% of the tiem they were still dry in the morning, and then we were done with diapers.
3 people like this
@mememama (3076)
• United States
8 May 07
that's great!
1 person likes this
• United States
4 May 07
I hear the myth that cloth diapers don't keep your baby dry. People say, don't they just sit in their pee? I tll them about All in Ones or pocket diapers. There are so many differnt types out there to try. My dad said oh just wait until you stick her with a pin. I said what pins. We have snaps and velcro rarely do people use pins. I love my cloth diapers!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@mememama (3076)
• United States
4 May 07
My son wakes up dry in the mornings, his skin is dry but his diaper is about 5 pounds lol. I get the whole "pin" thing too, I got some at a baby shower that are still in the package!
3 people like this
• United States
5 May 07
One myth that I have come across is that water usage for cleaning actually makes cloth diapering the less enviornmentally friendly choice. Hogwash, lol! If that were the case then would it be more enviornmentally friendly for all of us to wear disposible clothing everyday rather than washing and reusing our pants and shirts? And dare I say our underwear too? Also, a lot of water is used to manufactur disposible diapers which can't be ignored. By the way, my son is super skinny with saggy shorts as well. We do mostly wool shorts now over fitteds. I have to size down. He is 20 months and today I bought him a pair of 6-9 months shorts just so that they would stay up. And that is even with a fluffy cloth bum!
@mememama (3076)
• United States
5 May 07
There was a study, I think in the 70's or 80's done by disposable diaper companies that said that they had the same environmental impact as cloth-but they didn't take into account that they also use water to bleach the paper, that they use oil to drive the diapers to stores, and that it takes hundreds of years for their diapers to decompose-hmmm I wonder lol. I still get people commenting on that study!
3 people like this
• United States
5 May 07
I don't have any children in diapers and I didn't go for the cloth diapers when they were little. To be honest they didn't even have that option around here. I couldn't find cloth diapers even if I had wanted to. lol I just wanted to say that I think it is great that you are trying to do something good for the enviroment by using cloth diapers! Congratulations!
@4cuteboys (4099)
• United States
14 May 07
I must admit I have never used cloth, but I bought fuzzi bunz back before my third son was born in 2005, and the hemp liners, however everyone was giving me crap about using them, so I sold them all on ebay and went with disposables. Wish I would have looked more into them.
3 people like this
@syndibee (799)
• United States
15 May 07
hehe i like giving disposables users crap. i feel cloth is the better solution for the family, for the budget, for the environment, for the baby, and not to mention they are so cute and comfy. (though i'm only stating the comfy part as a second party, not personal experience).
3 people like this
@syndibee (799)
• United States
14 May 07
cloth diapering myths: 1) takes too much time 2) it's unsanitary 3) can't keep up with the laundry 4) it's hard 5) it's just gross 6) it stinks 7) baby will be wet 8) just as expensive as disposables 9) the energy expended in washing takes away from the environmental friendliness i'm sure i've missed a few. using cloth diapers we hear it all. such as oooh what do u do with the poop...well lets see, we wash it off our precious babies bottom then we wash it off their diaper..and what do you do with your babies poop. most disposable diaper users throw it in the trash!!!! what on earth is grosser or more unsanitary than that. hmmmm are we back in the ages of throwing human waste in the streets???? go to any walmart and i can guarantee that within a 24 hr period someone will leave a dirty disposable diaper either in the parking lot or in a shopping cart....now that's what i call gross!!! you never see that from a cloth diapering family. how hard is it really to throw a few diapers in a washing machine?? i say it's easier than running to the grocery store because i'm down to my last few diapers. it stinks: nope actually disposables stink more..the cloth diapers don't get that chemically smell when your baby pees. yes we need to change them more frequently but it's not because our babies pee more but rather because we are more conscious of them doing it and don't want them sitting in a pee diaper. when i watched a baby in disposables i changed him just as much...and if disposables users changed their babies whenever they peed, for sanitary purposes...they would go broke even if they are the most frugal sale shopper and coupon user.
@mememama (3076)
• United States
18 May 07
I can smell when a kid pees in a disposable diaper. With my son, I have to look or feel if he has, there is no smell! Unless there are major build-up issues lol.
1 person likes this
@lillake (1630)
• United States
14 May 07
I've had people try to claim it stinks to use cloth. The way my house is set up the back room is the kitchen and wash room together, so the diaper pail is next to the washer which is across from the stove. I never smell poopor anything gross. There's no way I could be in there cooking if I did. LOL Sometimes my boyfriend claims he can smell urine, but a sprinkle of baking soda and its all gone.
2 people like this
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
1 May 08
I had to use cloth diapers as there were few alternatives way back when I was a mom but let me tellyou i would gladly have used pams or whatever brands are out there now if they had been available as I had two kids ten months apart and loads of diapers and I did not like washing them or the stench of dirty diaper pails as no matter how much you washed them out they stil had an odor if left over a few hours. I am now eighty andi still remember that stench. no i vote for the cleanness and odorlessness of paper diapers every time.
@giay0422 (60)
• Philippines
20 Feb 09
Cloth diapers should be handwashed. Is this a myth? I prefer to handwash my son's cloth diaper 'coz I want them cleaned very well. After its hang and dried I ironed them before use. Imagine, its taking me longer to have them washed and cleaned than use which is at most 1hr. LOL. Anyway, this is to make sure he's prevented from having diaper rash. At night, I use disposables 'coz I wanted him to sleep longer. Well, he hates being wet.