is it a sin for a married woman to love another man and choose to live with him?

@swasti (1157)
India
May 4, 2007 2:46pm CST
i know a relative of mine , long tim eback ...betrayed he rhusabnd and her child and moved with her husabnd's friend. hearning this incident all our relatives and friends where shocked and treated her as a woman of bad character. her reason was that she di dnto like her husband and liked his husband's friend better and choose to live with him... so i wonder ?? is it right on her part to have doen this or is it her life an dshe can choose wat she wants?? basially i dont why she did not like her husband. but i know that her husabnd was ready to accept her even after she left him...she had left not only her husabnd but also her daughter. though i too lfeel liek otehrs ..sometime si wonder..after all this is 1 life we ahve and we have got to njoy life the way we want to ...but she has untimately hurt her husband too....is she right by doing this?
4 responses
@mdi0318 (54)
• Philippines
12 Sep 07
complicated....but she did it already...my point of view? i strongly disagree for that...if she dont love her husband...y she married him and had 1 child? did she had a past relationship with her husband's friend?
@swasti (1157)
• India
16 Sep 07
no that affair wasnt before marriage i suppose...she came to know of that friends only thru her husband after their marriage.
• Philippines
17 Sep 07
oh! i see....i feel bad for their daughter...
@hollowheart (1572)
• India
21 May 07
well Swasti I would not say that it is a sin for a married man or women to fall in love. However i think if u already love someone from the time before mariage, then why spoil the life of aniother. Ur relative was wrong there. if she or he fell in love after marriage, it could have been excused, but then also not only for the sake of love but only if she was having too much of problem in living together, maybe due to torture, or some form of dissatisfaction. Marriage is not a game that could be broken anytime u want to. It is a tie up for a life long period. If u r not married i would suggest u be very sure that u would not leave the person and neither would he leave u. Problems in marriage can happen, but it does not mean break up. They should be ale to discuss and solve the problem.
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@swasti (1157)
• India
16 Sep 07
yeah u r right...but wat if the man/woman is not at all happy with each other?
• India
16 Sep 07
mam.........where r u? i would like to meet u .plz
@paulsy (1263)
• Philippines
17 Sep 07
It is a sin, if you base it all on what the Bible says. But we are all human beings. We need to look at both sides of the story. A mother doesn't normally just leave her own child for another man. A good husband would most probably exert his rights before just letting go with no word at all. We don't know, the husband may have done something really serious to just let this all happen to his family. Listen to this example, and you'll probably know just what I'm trying to say: http://stupidvideos.com/prank_calls/helovesme/?m=new&pos=7&tf=all