Any comment on Celibacy?

Philippines
May 4, 2007 10:45pm CST
What can you say about the Roman Catholic Priests' vow of Celibacy?
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@lvap0628 (731)
• Philippines
5 May 07
Hello, aileen! This has been a big issue with the Catholic priests. As you may be aware there are some men who leave priesthood or the seminary because of this. I personally know someone who was not able to marry the woman he loves because he took the vow of celibacy while he was in the seminary. My religion teacher used to say that the Catholics have 3 ways of life to choose from: married life, single blessedness or the religious life. She also said that priests/nuns are not allowed to marry because they can only serve one.
• Philippines
5 May 07
well, thanks so much, dear. BTW, we were in Batangas yesterday... had our company outing there. Matabungkay beach resort & hotel.... very mice place. (hehehe... commercials) Actually, I have my membership in another forum that talks about optional celibacy... pm me if you are interested, so i can give you the name of the site...
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• Philippines
5 May 07
oppsss.. typo..sorry, should be nice... not mice :D
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@lvap0628 (731)
• Philippines
5 May 07
I think you're still in "outing" mode, aileen. We're a little way off from matabungkay (I'm in Batangas City). Glad you could take time off and enjoy the summer.
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@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
5 May 07
As far as the bible says, it is to be entirely voluntary.. Saul, later called Paul, was not married and said it was the best way to be if you really wanted to devote your life to working for the Lord.. Not that one cannot serve him and be married, he said, but there is less distraction, or obligation if not married, etc.. but he ended with, it's up to each one.. :))
@kiwibee (240)
• New Zealand
6 May 07
True. And Jesus did not make it a condition of discipleship when he chose his 12 apostles. In fact the apostle Peter (who Catholics view as the first Pope) was a married man. (1 Corinthians 9:5) Actually, the Bible foretold that in the future, people would come along saying untrue things such as that marriage was to be forbidden. That's in 1 Timothy 4:1-3. Nowhere does the Bible say that men taking the lead in church need to be celibate.
• Philippines
7 May 07
I'm having a real great time reading your responses, my friends. You have very good points that are real worth-sharing. I treasure your responses, much as i am honored to have drawn your attention to this topic.
@Krisss (1231)
• Australia
9 May 07
Interesting question. No where in the bible does it say that a church leader should be celibate. It is a man made requirement. I wonder when it was introduced too. Don't the Catholics consider Peter to be their first pope? Yet the Bible clearly says that Peter was married.
• Philippines
24 May 07
:D interestingly, here's a link.. if you have time... you may read through it :) this concurs with your comment :)
• Philippines
24 May 07
https://www.chick.com/reading/books/160/160_36.asp
@14missy (3183)
• Australia
5 May 07
I am actually catholic and feel that it is a good thing for a priest not to be married as he can give himself completely to the church and it's congregation without having to put his family aside at all. Priests are considered married to the church as are nuns married to the church,. That is their choice and each to their own beliefs.
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@Krisss (1231)
• Australia
9 May 07
Priests are still humans with human failures. A person can give himself to a task, without needing to forgo part of his human needs.
• Philippines
7 May 07
I appreciate your input, my dear. Actually, it is our own reasoning that would do justice to our response, and i guess yours really came from the heart. Thanks for sharing. :)
• Philippines
5 May 07
i once read an anecdote about a deacon in a monastery. his work in the monastery is to transcribe the contents of the bible word for word. one day he was asked by a theology student if he, in his work, did not commit any error and where in the bible does the word celibacy appeared. the deacon emphatically replied that he is very diligent, meticulous in his work and did not commit a single mistake in his transcription work. as to the querry on celibacy he went upstair to look into the original bible on celibacy. hours have passed and the deacon did not come down and the student was anxious and so he went upstair to look for the deacon. the student saw him clutching the old bible and was crying and so he asked him what's the matter and why is he crying. the deacon in between sobs answered, "its celibrate, its celibrate!" and continued with his cry. i hope my friend you get the punchline of the humor...
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• Philippines
7 May 07
hmm... too shy to guess, but i have some things in mind... am i right when i think that he is too resentful in translating it correctly before, and wants to change it now? :D
• Philippines
9 May 07
slow me on jokes, but i believe that yours is relevant. I must read the book of St. Paul then. Will get back to you soonest. :)
• Philippines
7 May 07
it was meant to be a joke my friend, the deacon supposedly transcribed the word celibacy instead of celebrate. you can go over your bible again and you can see the works of St. Paul who advocated pure in heart, body and soul but he did not sanction that priests are not allowed to get married...
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@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
5 Jul 07
If the Church would let Priests marry, do you think they still diddle little boys? If the church would let women be priests do you think they would diddle little girls? The priests would like to be allowed to marry, and have a family. I feel sorry for them, even if they do diddle little boys. The Pope claims to be infallible! Thats so laughable its almost funny. I'm wondering if the Pope also diddles little boys?
• Philippines
6 Jul 07
I hope the leaders would do something about it. It's the sign of times they say, but still, we look at priests as humans who like the rest of us, have biological needs.
@edujccz (929)
• Philippines
28 May 07
I guess the catholic priest being celibate is the most beautiful vow they are doing, being married to the church is one of the highest sacrifice a man or a woman gifts to God. I will not question it but rather honor them highly and it shows the uniqueness of this faith, all other faith to me are protestant.
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• Philippines
28 May 07
Thank you so much for this response. I just wish all those who have chosen priesthood would live up to the doctrines and values of their vocation. Those who aren't sure of themselves should never try doing it... for it only adds to our confusion.
@susieq223 (3742)
• United States
5 May 07
I admire the person who can take and keep a vow of celebacy as a sacrifice to their faith. I don't think it should be required, however, even for priests. I understand the thinking behind the requirement. St Paul said several times it is better that a Christian not be married, due to the distractions marriage provides. (Corin. 7:25-35). I think a priest should be able to make the decision for himself, like Protestant ministers do.
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• Philippines
7 May 07
Well, at times, when hearing about reasons such as yours, i wish our sect leaders would find time to review the laws and adopt them at present times. And this is where Optional celibacy would come in... hope they would consider it. For some may want to serve the church but they happened to have fallen in love and got married. I believe that even married people have the right to love and serve God.