would you forgive your partner?

@cyrile07 (236)
Philippines
May 5, 2007 2:03am CST
would you forgive your partner if your partner cheated on you? or lets say would you forgive your husband or wife if you found out that they cheated on you? what would you do?
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3 responses
@psyche49f (2502)
• Philippines
5 May 07
I've been married for 26 years, and if ever I found out my husband is cheating on me, I don't think I'll ever forgive him. The thought of it even hurts. . but before I accuse him of doing so, I would first check if it were really true before doing something about it. I am generally a trusting person, but when I am betrayed, I could be as fierce as a lion! Well, I am not sure what I will do really, but one thing for sure, I will not allow myself to be deceived into thinking that everything is all right after being cheated.
@cyrile07 (236)
• Philippines
5 May 07
i see your point.. i guess sometimes we have to love ourself then huh? :) anyway, thanks a lot... i appreciate your comments and it really help me a lot :) Happy mylotting
@cyrile07 (236)
• Philippines
8 May 07
well, life goes on even there are trials along the way :) even if your long been married trials are there to test your love with each other and to test how deep is your love towards each other and to test how to handle storms that would come along your relationship :) anyway, i do hope you will stay strong psyche49f :) happy mylotting
@kclaret59 (587)
• Philippines
5 May 07
i have forgiven my boyfriend then when he committed such treachery.. but i do not know now.. what if he does that to me again, now that he is my husband.. can i still forgive him? i don't know.. i just hope it won't happen again.
@cyrile07 (236)
• Philippines
5 May 07
well, i agree with you, i also forgive my boyfriend back then till he become my husband and now? i still want to forgive him but i dont know if he will do it again or not? what do you think should i do? :(
@cyrile07 (236)
• Philippines
8 May 07
really? you think so that he wont cheat again? i hope so.. thank you so much for your reply, you help me a lot.. :) you enlighten my mind and my friends mind :) happy mylotting :)
@eipril (401)
• Philippines
5 May 07
yes i'll forgive him ,.the thing that i'll do is forgive and forget ..
@cyrile07 (236)
• Philippines
8 May 07
great! :) well, i guess some people worth a second chance after all right? :) as long as they will not do it again and again.. LOL