The Irony of life..........

thats very very true, i had a handful of experiences from that kind of people. its frustrating though as you trusted them and treated them well. on the other hand it made you realize who your true friends are.

you have to look at a clean sheet of paper. there are no botches and marks. it's adorable. but the moment even a small speck of dust has landed on the paper it has become dirty. and in most cases, when you look at this sheet of paper, you'll not take notice of the whiteness of the paper, but of the small dust that had blemished it. sadly, there are people who will shun you the moment you commited a single mistake and forget all the greatness you had done. they will only take note of the bad thing that you have done, just like the small speck of dust in a white sheet of paper.

THAT is humanr nature.we want perfection in others but dont do it ourselves/

exactly. .in fact.. it's true that they only come to you when they need something from you.. i guess this is life.. people will ignore you when they find you're useless.. i don't say all the people.. but most of the peoples.. they are the same.. they always do the same..they have similarity in attitudes... for example.. politicians.. people won't remember what are the good things they have done if they do a single mistake.. right? will you still support this leader if he hss make a wrong move.. eventhough you know he contributed alot to the country? i don't think so.. life is realistic.. and this is part of it =)

So true. Thats y i keep friends enjoy life but never depend on anyone U never know what would happen when u need them the most

yeah, and they will remember all the mistakes that you've done too. why can't all the good things that you've done, regardless for them or not, overcome the mistakes? yet they want you to forgive them and forget the mistakes that they've done but they don't want to do the same for you. dont fancy these kind of ppl..

That's because people are unfair. They just think people are there for their own benefit. Mistakes is what makes us humans. People who think that way also make mistakes. They're being unfair if they don't allow others to make mistakes as well.

Yes I agree with you there and I have come across a few of these People in my Life I have been kicked many a time and it has hurt a lot but have I learned my Lesson lol no I haven't but the People I know now I doubt if they would do this to me now as they are loving and caring People and have gone through it themselves

I agree with this statement. i have had friend or people who I thought were friends.

Well I do know people that do adore and love me for what good things I do for them but they certainly do not hate me for anything as I have not done anything for them to hate me. I have been lucky really as I do not have any friends that are not true friends now. I have had them in my life but I discontinue my friendship with them if they do something really wrong to me but I certainly will have a talk to them first to see why they did this to me.

I agree with you. I know people who only come around when they want something and you never see them till they want something again. I also agree that some people will always remember the one BAD thing you ever did and will forget the hundreds of good things you have done. That's really sad too. It shouldn't be like that. I am so thankful that the Lord isn't like that.

That is so true. When things are going well, and everything is positive for you, it seems like you have hundreds of loving friends. But when life is getting you down, and you're not feeling positive and happy, most of those supposed friends are nowhere to be found. Those are what my dad always called "fair weather friends"....they stick around when it's sunny and bright, but when the clouds and rain come into your life, they run for cover somewhere else.

Counts for a lot of people, can be friends for years but do one thing wrong once and all of the sudden you are hated, lol. Personally I can never grasp that, since everybody makes mistakes, and usually making mistakes is just a very minor fraction of all we do.