Are you still friends with your ex-boyfriend(girlfriend)?
By sabwinner
@sabwinner (499)
China
9 responses
@wonderful1 (2075)
• China
7 May 07
Last year my former bf and I were friends, but we suddently lose connection with each other. My bf is unhappy if I keep in touch with my former bf, so sometimes I will refuse to recieve the phone from my former bf. Now I really can't connect with him. I know it's not fair for my bf, If he keep in touch with his former bf, I must be very angry and say goodbye to him. So maybe it is good for all of us. But I can't forget that he turns out in my life and I don't forget him at all, but we can't stay together without love.
@hollowheart (1572)
• India
7 May 07
Well i never forgot any one of the girls, but ya there is absolutely no contacts and even if i meet them ever i may not speak much, except for just a few simple questions like how she is and what is she doing.
@foxyfire33 (10005)
• United States
6 May 07
This was the perfect night for this question! I just got home from my ex-hubby's house, granted the main reason was because I wanted to visit with the kids but I also like to see him. We have been friends for going on 23 years, our relationship/marriage lasted for only 5 of that so it wasn't worth losing just because the marriage didn't work.
We both had some issues with jealousy but we deal with it and move on. We're still really close and I feel confident in saying that we would still be close even if we didn't have the children together.
@serena_wai (970)
• Malaysia
5 May 07
My ex is my current bf again. I guess being fren with him brought me a lot of memory and i wasn't sure if it is a good idea keeping in touch with ex. Probably there is chances to bring both back together, like us.
@shinevip (22)
• Armed Forces Americas (Except Canada)
6 May 07
May be my ex-girlfriend and I have nothing in common ,we just lost touch with each other gradually untill one day I found that I didn't know what to talk with her.Now,we live in different place ,I try to avoid meeting her on internet for its makes me feel embarrassed.
@angelm_jose (42)
• Philippines
6 May 07
I am in good terms with my ex boyfriend. We still share the same interests and same views in life. The funny thing is that when I applied in a call center, I did not know that he also works there. We work in the same account. Sometimes he's even stationed beside me. Everything was actually back to normal, I mean us being good friends. He knows that I'm so in love with my beau right now and sometimes he even gives me advice. He sounds like a brother I never had. And honestly I still want to be friends with him in the years to come. If it wasn't for him, I wouldn't be the person I am today. If it wasn't for him my new relationship would not be as flawless as it is right now.
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
5 May 07
I have 2 exes that i was serious about. One is still in my life. We live in different countries so we do not see eachother but we will send eachother an email every now and then. The other one I was with for 4 years and i have erased him totally from my life., He was an abusive cheater and I do not people like that in my life, not even as a friend,.
@samtaylorskykierajen (7977)
• Canada
5 May 07
I am not friends with any of my exes , I am not enemies with them either just don't have anything to do with them one way or another . I have been with my husband for many years now and would have nothing in common with any of my exes as they are from my past and I have moved on and I am sure they have as well .
@lovelydame3000 (1577)
• India
5 May 07
Hi sabwinner! I am still in very good terms with my exboyfreinds. Every breakup for me was mutually talked and decided. Life is too short so i would rather not spend it over grudges. My ex's care a lot about me and i too feel for them.