CANCER - Helping the victims

Yes I can understand how you feel. My mother is currently fighting for her dear life for my frail father wants her on her side. They have just entered their retirement life and they have not even enjoyed their life as retired and everything seems gloomy in their life as they are struggling to fight this disease off them. Financially speaking they still could cope but we don't really know how far it could reach or could we really afford to continue her chemos and everything.

I asked myself that same question when my sister passed from it back in 2003; She has a son who was 8 going on 9 at the time; I wondered how he would be without her, but considering it's just him and his father now, I believe he has turned out very well. He couldn't take the fact of his granddaddy passing(my father)so his father made the call to not attend since it was the same month his mom passed. I told them I understood and that we loved them just the same. I do know that since his mom's passing, he has had a counselor to come in for him; he got him a Game Station so he can keep his interests occupied, which it did, but out of it, I see a more mature young man. but back to the question, what can we do? other than let them know we love them and why this has happened, that is all we can do. They may not understand the reason why their parent or loved one has gone, but it does; I have a lady from church; she is in her 20s I would say, and she lost her mom about six years ago, and I know she still has pain. Time is probably all that is needed.

There are cancer charity institutes. And help also provided by charity trusts. People like our can submit their contribution to those trusts and that way help could be sent! I am a healer and I am healing few cancer people since become healer. I found that at least the pain is really affected by Reiki Healing Energy. I have got messages from doctor that pain duration and severity really affected up to 80%! Online internet distance healing is also possible. If such persons want to get benefit of that, please visit these sites: http://www.reikiholistichealing.bravehost.com http://www.reikisanctum.com So who are healer they can help this way and this is a best way to help!

thats terrible. i feel so sorry for you. well i think that the cancer victims should be given some social work to do so that they can get their minds away from their situations, as for a mother with no income, a cancer trust fund should be set up which helps these people. or we all can collect money for someone that we know is a cancer patient or someone who has lost a loved one suffering from cancer.

Its a hard thing to talk about as people die from it everyday. If you think about it, GM engineering may be able to help cancer and many other diseases but the goverment dont allow it..

I'm with you, bon. Our dear family friends are going through this. She's pregnant with their fifth child, he's going through chemo and radiation concurrently. We walked with them in the Relay For Life. Cancer took my best friend when we were thirteen, and my high school sweetheart when we were twenty-four. Now, another dear friend has been battling it out for eight years. Is it in the water? The air?

Hi there Bon Jiing, How important is this to you? By the story you tell, it seems as closest to you as possible, and I feel so sorry for families who's relatives have cancer - who are as victims as the patients themselves. I can show you a way to help yourself and others, if you like. I do it here, and all over the world in more than 40 countries - even in the philippines... PM me for more info.

At christams time my uncle was fighting maligant malanoma. Every time we went to the Dr we got the worst news possible and we got very discouraged. This is my dads twin brother and we are very close he is another father to me. We strugled with this. At his surgery they were checking his lymph nodes and as we have gotten so much bad news we were very nervous. After the surgery my mom and I had to take care of him. As nurses it was our job but we were ok with it. I was at home one night and my mom and grandmother were at his house and they called me and they had gotten a phone call that they cancer was not in the lymph nodes. I can not explain the feeling that I had. My insides were jumping. His daughter called me and she was happier that I have ever seen her. I know that its hard to deal with but keep praying and believing and it will get better. It might not always go away but things will get better.