are you pro-life or pro-choice?
By babyzai
@babyzai (38)
United States
May 5, 2007 9:47am CST
Most of the common problems of the teenagers today are unwanted pregnancies. Girls, young ladies, women are torn between aborting the baby or not. Girls have the right to choose between doing it or not.
babies, even if they are not yet born, they do have life. But it is all up to the mother to decide whether to make the decision or not.
There had been lots of debates going on whether to make it legal or not.
there are two sides of the story. so, tell me what your side of the story is regarding this issue.
Are you pro-life or pro-choice?
5 responses
@Gorgeous24 (1091)
• United States
12 May 07
Definitly Pro-Choice..if a young women didnt have the choice to have an abortion i think we would have alot more babies (and this is sad to say) but we'd find more babies thrown in the garbage or being abandoned..and its true there are way too many kids out there already that dont have homes. We as women should always have that choice..no one should try to tell us any different!
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@babyzai (38)
• United States
12 May 07
You're right! A lot of children are homeless nowadays. And we as women, are thinking of the best for us in the future. By making that decision, we are not only thinking of our own personal interests, but also with the welfare of the child. We have thr right to choose and decide with what we think is best. And nobody should hinder us from doing that so.
@babyzai (38)
• United States
12 May 07
You're right! A lot of children are homeless nowadays. And we as women, are thinking of the best for us in the future. By making that decision, we are not only thinking of our own personal interests, but also with the welfare of the child. We have thr right to choose and decide with what we think is best. And nobody should not hinder us from doing that so.
@Melissa528 (744)
• United States
12 May 07
I used to always consider myself pro-life but I've realized that i'm pro-life for myself but pro-choice for others. Does that make sense? I could never have an abortion myself but I don't think it's fair to judge another person that has one because you don't know that persons circumstances. I don't agree with people that use abortion as a form of birth control and I don't agree with a person that has multiple abortions because I think you should learn from your mistakes and double up on birth control or do whatever is needed to prevent anymore unwanted pregnancies. With that said, I don't think a person that chooses to have an abortion is an awful person because we all make mistakes and nobody is perfect but I just wish some people would stop and think that the moment you conceive you are creating a living being inside of your body and it just isn't fear to end there life because you chose to not be careful. I think we should have abortion as choice because the sad truth is that if it wasn't available then more babies would die and illeagal and unsafe abortions will be performed.
@babyzai (38)
• United States
12 May 07
We do have the same point of view. For myself i do think as pro-life. Living in a Catholic country we had always been taught that abortion is not the solution for getting pregnant out of marriage and it a big sin. We are caught up with having to decide whether to abort the baby or not. Morality always comes along with this issue in this part of my place. Most of the women who do this thing, are doing it in private. Nobody knows or only a few knows cause it will destroy not only your dignity but also the dignity of your family and ruining your family name.
But on my case, i can't really comment on it well, just based on my point of view because i don't have that kind of experience yet.
@blondbat (503)
• United States
11 May 07
I am pro-choice - because I do not want to tell any other person what they can or cannot do if/when they find themselves in a place where they have to make that choice. In a perfect world no one would ever have to make that choice. Every woman who became pregnant would want to have the child and would be in a position to raise that child under the best possible circumstances.
This is not a perfect world, and it is not an automatic decision for some women when they become pregnant to have and raise that child. I wish it was, then this could become a non-issue and all these conversations and unpleasantness could stop.
@PsychoDude (2013)
• Netherlands
5 May 07
Pro-choice as it actually is here, when not yet born before a certain period I don't see it as yet having life anyways. And abortion is a lot better than ending up placing the kid up for adoption, since hardly anyone actually adopts them anyways. Way too many kids are already waiting for homes.
@babyzai (38)
• United States
9 May 07
thanks for telling your side of the story. Yes, i agree with you, a lot of kids are surely waiting for adoption because the parents can't support them or are too young to be one. have a good day!