heart ache....

@maxxine (610)
Philippines
May 5, 2007 10:44am CST
ouch.... my X boyfriend and my friend is now an item.... last nyt was the most awckward night of my life we were in one place and the two of them were together..... i didnt know how to react..... i dont know if ill still continue the friendship with her...my X and i are now good friends but with what happened last night..i dont think i can still call them my friends....
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@nurhoney (1123)
• Philippines
5 May 07
What your friend did wasn't a nice thing to do. I mean she should have given you the respect you deserve as her friend. She should have at least ask for your opinion and feelings if she would hook up with your ex. On the other hand, who broke up with who?...did you broke up with your ex? coz if he was the one who broke up with you, probably during the time both of you are still hook up...he was already in love iwth your friend. Maybe you feel awkward coz you still love your ex and the least you expect was him to hook up with your girl friend. If that was in my case, I would just leave them alone and avoid them coz I would feel like I have been betrayed.
@maxxine (610)
• Philippines
5 May 07
i was the one who broke up with him.. he just came home from thailand..he worked there (he's a drummer like me...) while he was there i broke up with him coz i felt like the relationship wasnt going anywhere.. but when he came back home.. we still shared the closeness.. but were just friends... the feeling is still there........ but until my friend came along.. she at first acted like shes a bridge to bring us back together but now... they're an item already..... arrrrrgghhhhh and why did he have to go to our gig last night!!!!!?? huhuhuhuu......
@maxxine (610)
• Philippines
7 May 07
thanks.....
@nurhoney (1123)
• Philippines
6 May 07
oh i see...well, you shouldn't be friends with them...i think your ex might just be getting back on you for breaking up with him through your friend...forget about them and move on...you deserve a much better than him.
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@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
5 May 07
Oh that is so bad, Exes are just a bog no no among friends. I would never hook up with a friends ex and a friend that did that to me would not be a friend as well. That is just wrong.. I am so sorry.
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@maxxine (610)
• Philippines
5 May 07
yah..i really didnt expect her to hook up with my Ex... :( and what hurts most is.. she;s the one i confide to most of the time about my ex.i didnt know she and him were already "them" :(
@nurhoney (1123)
• Philippines
5 May 07
thats right marie2473...its not nice to be doing that. A friend is suppose to help a friend from a heartache not give her more heartache.
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@austere (2812)
• Philippines
10 May 07
that really hurts dear.. if i were in your position, well, i just dont know what to do..hahhaha good thing i werent you or in your shoes.. i havent experienced anything like that too.:) maybe you should try to continue with your life.. and act as if it didnt affect you or something.. let them be and be happy..:)
• India
29 Jun 07
Believe me, there is an end to every tunnel. You will not be in this situation forever, even if you can’t see the light yet. Believe that there will be an end to this hurt to make living a bit easier.
@thai11 (239)
• United States
5 May 07
Wow!!! You're a good one, I might have started to act the fool!! I wouldn't have stayed there either, they aren't your friends!! Hello...of all the billions of people in the world, your friend had to date your ex??? What's the deal with your ex that is a so called good friend wanting to date your friend anyway??? If he was soo close with you than why couldn't he find another chick??? Friends are SUPPOSE to care about their friends feelings so putting you in that situation doesn't to mush like a "friend" thing to do...just some food for thought for ya!!
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@maxxine (610)
• Philippines
5 May 07
yah.. and now she's always asking me things about my X.... (which is her bf now!ggrrrrrrr).... why woould she have to ask ME?!! huhuhh its as if she doesnt value my feelings at all....but i couldnt just drop her as a friend coz we are always together coz she and i are band mates....
• India
5 May 07
Try selecting one. Go frank and say out your hearts decision. Don't take heart ache. Just try to enjoy life. It is never to be late. Go and tell it as soon as possible.
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@maxxine (610)
• Philippines
5 May 07
aw..... i feel like i dont wanna be with any of them anymore.. but i couldnt coz we are bandmates.....awwwwww
@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
10 May 07
I think it would be a poor way of ending a friendship. I don't think that you should let it affect you that your friend and your ex are now together unless they have been going behind your back when you were still together. Now that is a different matter and could be reason enough to end a friendship. But if their relationship developed after you have broken up with your ex, then their is no cause for you to feel bad.
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