Have you ever had a friend who was more of an enemy?

I have a friend that I have known for almost 12 years and they have been trying to keep up with whatever I do or get! I can't seem to tell her that I am not interested in what she does or that I don't care how she handles her life anymore! I honestly don't know what to do in this situation!!

not prejudice, but I find more females treat their firends like this than males. More chance to get this in teenage beauties. As a outsider, it is so funny to watch what they are doing to their friends, some of their trick are so clumsy. Their is a movie about such girl, but I can not find the name in my mind now. For such "friends", the bast way is to reveal what they have done in front of himself.

Yes, I had one. She was one of the worst person I ever encounterd in my life. She was not the friendly type of person but we became friends through common friends. I find her nice and I can relate to her easily, but in the end, it was just all nothing. She just uses the friendship to help her and make a big discount on my professional fee(Which I did because of the friendship). But I found that it's already an abuse, so I decline to continue the job and what I receive was all negative feedbacks about my work even it it's not true. I was badly hurt and it took me a lot of time to surpass it. And the friendship was no longer there...

I had a friend in the past who was like that. She'd make little remarks like how she was happy she was naturally slender (when she knew I struggled to stay thin) or how she didn't didn't need to put highlights into her hair because it was naturally highlighted right after she knew I spent $60 to get mine done at a salon. Whenever I had a boyfriend (which was, uncannily enough, more often than her naturally highlighted, slender self, did) she'd tell me she thought I could do better behind their backs, and flirt with them to their faces. At one point, she actually asked out a guy she knew I liked, and them admitted after they started dating that she didn't even find him attractive. After high school, when I didn't need to see her anymore, I stopped returning her phone calls and emails, and when I moved away I didn't keep in touch with her. Since the advent of Facebook, she's since found me and lives in the same city, but even her repeated attempts at befriending me again, I'm basically ignoring, telling her I don't really have much spare time. I want friends that like me for me, not ones that bash my self esteem to make themselves feel superior.

yah!my best friend is like that! like i really love her and treat her as my sister but she keeps on competing with me that i've never notice for a long time,but thank god we have really different taste of guys so she can't compete with me in that case!but were still friends, i've never told her about that kind of felling because she never notice what she's doing.

i think we've all been betrayed by a friend at some point in our lives. that sucks. yeah i have friends who tries to compete with me..most of the time i just ignore them and just be myself, but there are times when i just let them win..

I had a "friend" like this past year. Then more, he was a hypocrit and never showed his jelousy to me, but used my mistakes to comment them with others behind my back...grrr... It was like a Juda`s kiss when at last understood. And i am a bit little naive. But this was very painfull lesson indeed.