who do you think can keep secrets better?
By kenetot18
@kenetot18 (452)
United States
May 5, 2007 7:38pm CST
girls or guys? for me guys,maybe because they doesn't care and their not into gossip and rumor things, but girls cannot keep secrets, if you share your secret to a girl,that girl will tell to another girl and say just a secret ok? do you think it's still a secret?no!so who do you think can keep a secret better?
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@kenetot18 (452)
• United States
6 May 07
well you have a point, but that's just base on my experience..
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@amar_sandy1987 (1876)
• India
7 May 07
of course guys can keep that secrets but girls never but u r a gril right
@kenetot18 (452)
• United States
8 May 07
girls do keep secrets too!i know i'm a girl and i can say that we really love to chitchats about other person so we cannot keep secrets that much but guys talk about stuff that they can go along with,like interest,video games,sports and other stuffs.
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@amar_sandy1987 (1876)
• India
8 May 07
so u agree that girls cant kee secrets right i m confident on it because my gf do that she cant keep any secrets
@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
7 May 07
I do not think that we can say boys are better in it. It does not really matter the gender. It is depending on temper, and personality. I am the type of person who can not lie. I can not lie for any-body's request. So I do not like to get to know others secrets. You are better to keep them for yourself. I also think that if somebody has too many secrets it means that s/he is not a right, true person. In this case s/he is better to keep the secrets for her/himself. Am I right, or am I right? ;)
@biznizman01 (581)
• Philippines
8 May 07
keeping secrets depend on the persons character. if he/she is the type of person that always keeps a promise that person can be trusted with a secret.
personally, i could keep a secret about someone when that person tells me something in confidence. As long as its not a criminal offence or something close to it.
@jobenmakapangyarihan (546)
• Philippines
9 May 07
i would prefer the guy's.... cause i am a guy.. lol.. your right i don't care i someone tells a secret to me... cause after 3 to 4 days i have already forgotten it... lol.. i do really have a shot term of memory...
@scylinni (50)
• Philippines
10 May 07
i'd say the girls... guys may not be as open as they seem but from my experuience living with so many guys in the house (me, being the only daughter with 2 bros, too many guy cousins, not to mention my past boardmates) they don't talk around alot around girls but they are more prone to spilling out secrets esp. when they are having a what we call "drinking session" or the place "locker room" where they spill all, thats why the term "kiss and tell" was born. the are so snoopy they also got my diary and read it. they got to know my crush is and they do have a saying: a secret is a secret, where you made the secret remains in that place ( hindi mkakalabas sa lugar na un ang sikreto..) so i asked and what if people go to that place? they smiled and said 'then they would know' (e di mlalaman na nila, at least hindi lumabas, pumasok lng sila). so you see, maybe some girls talk too much but as some say "mas tsismoso ang mga lalaki, hnd lang halata" =)