Will you love your lover forever?
By Jellytang
@Jellytang (698)
China
23 responses
@Jellytang (698)
• China
6 May 07
Does it means that you don't believe your lover will love you forever? Or will not you love your lover any more once something happen?
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@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
6 May 07
Yes, I will truly love my lover forever. My husband is the best. I would never stop loving him. He would have to do something very very awful to me to make me stop loving him as I do now. It is hard to be in love and we all make sacrifices, it is very confusing and before I got married I was scared to live with someone for my entire life, but I can't picture myself without him now!
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@Jellytang (698)
• China
6 May 07
Your love is sweet!I am happy to hear that.I wish you a happy life forever.
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@yanjiaren (9031)
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6 May 07
I LOVE MY BELOVED ZHANGFU MORE AND MORE, EVERY TIME I VISIT HIM, BECAUSE WE LIVE APART UNTIL WE CAN LIVE TOGETHER..I feel more and more deeper the love. It takes time, work and patience, like watering and feeding a flower to help the love grow and become stronger and stronger with time. iT IS NOT JUST THE ROMANTIC SIDE, IT IS SHARING ALL THE GOOD AND BAD TIMES AND FINDING WAYS THROUGH IT ALL.YOU MAKE YOUR LIFE INTERESTING OR BORING YOU CAN ALWAYS FIND WAYS TO KEEP THE MARRIAGE STRONG.I wish you all the best and find things to do with your hubby, we do lots of things together, including tai ji..
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@Jellytang (698)
• China
7 May 07
Thank you very much.And I also hope I can stay together with my boyfriend soon.
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@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
7 May 07
yes, i do agree that love is hard to say, but for me, it's not hard to say if you really love the person..i do have a bf this time and i think he's for me forever..i do love him and he loves me too..if he will propose a marriage on me, then i will definitely say yes, and surely to myself that i will love him for the rest of my life..
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@jmespinosa82 (498)
• United States
7 May 07
I truely do believe that I will love him forever. He is very sweet and we both do things to keep our love life good.
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@Jellytang (698)
• China
7 May 07
After hearing your expression,I also feel sweet,too.
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@kingofdamned (38)
• India
7 May 07
yes,if we are in sincere in our love then,we will love our lover forever.
@bettyrose20 (997)
• Philippines
7 May 07
Love is a very complicated thing. As long as my partner will love me, i will love him too. But if i sense that he is getting away from me, i think its for the best that we break off to save myself from pain and humiliation.
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@Jellytang (698)
• China
7 May 07
Though love is complicated,I would like to regard it as a simple thing.Simple love will be better.
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@Jellytang (698)
• China
7 May 07
Once we find the right person,everything will be okay.No matter the time we stay is long or short,we will be happy,too.
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@happy2bmommy (305)
• United States
6 May 07
i cannot say for sure that i will love him always and forever, but i think that i will. as long as he treats me good and keeps me happy, i think that is going to be easy. the only thing that he can do to break my heart is cheat on me. even then, i dont think i can honestly say that i wouldnt love him. i sure wouldnt stay with him, but i dont think that i could stop loving him. i would never trust him and wouldnt want to be with him anymore, but i dont think that i could stop loving him. i think that once we love someone, we cant just stop loving them. there is always going to be just a little bit of our hearts that belongs to that person. i have heard that saying of "i love you, but i am not IN love with you" and i can understand that. to me, there is a difference.
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@Jellytang (698)
• China
6 May 07
Only when your lover reaches your conditions and satisfies your demands,you will love your lover forever.Right?
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@jonnysmomma (75)
• United States
6 May 07
I know I will love my hubby forever....cause we are soul mates. Hes my best friend in the world. I am 28 years old...i have known him for 24 years! I love him more today than the day I married him...and 8 years from now, ill love him more that i do today.
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@Jellytang (698)
• China
6 May 07
The story of you and your lover is rather magic.
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@sweetlizzie (186)
• Philippines
18 May 07
it really depends if we are really meant for each other, if our relationship gets stronger, && if he will prove me that no one else above me then thats the time i will love him forever..
@Jellytang (698)
• China
1 Jun 07
But what do you want he to do for proving that no one else above you?
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@Dixie58 (18)
• United States
6 May 07
I can honestly say YES i will. My husband is a wonderful man he is my second husband and in june we will celebrate 20 years together and 15 years of marriage. It has not always been easy but we are best friends and i know many will find this hard to believe but we have been together 24/7 for 20 years we have spent one night apart in 20 years and that was due to my mothers passing away. he tells me every morning I am the most beautiful woman in the world (i know he lies) and for 15 years he has carried my first cup of coffee to my bedside table before waking me. I know that dont sound like much but to me it is a lot He is my lover my friend and best of all he is mine.
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@Jellytang (698)
• China
6 May 07
Wow!You have been married for 20 years.You are so happy and of conjugal love.
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@nonelemental (261)
• Brazil
13 May 07
i think yes
i like very much stay whit my lover
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@Jellytang (698)
• China
1 Jun 07
Thank you for your reponse.You must be a good man.
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@varunkrishna007 (1909)
• India
30 Sep 07
I think question is so confusing that it still beckons an answer.We would love to love our love for ever but at times circumstances is the villian that puts us in a vicious choice that is we are forced to make choice and most of the times the selection of the choice takes uus away from our love,we would still remem ber about our love with tears in our eyes but ultimately there is no pain that time cant heal
@syndhujaa (252)
• India
2 Jun 07
definately Yes..everyone would have answered yes..because veryone will love their partner..did ya get any response saying no..? you will not get so..only situations and circumstances make us so..even no one want to get separated fromt heir partner..it all because of the circumstances..everyone loves their partner..someone express it and some dont..but the love remains the same...
so..there is no point in asking wether one will love their lover forever or not..everyone loves and evvery one must love..:)
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@Jellytang (698)
• China
4 Jun 07
Everyone would have answered yes? No.You can see the answers here before your answer.Many persons are not certain about that.
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@Jellytang (698)
• China
30 Sep 07
In my opinion,we should think of the good aspects about our future,so that we can live happier.
@steven318 (469)
• Malaysia
8 Jun 07
well.. the answer say "no" maybe have to see the situation..
becouse many ppl even have dating there but unhappy there... thats why will happen such answer..
mostly people also say yes.. but in mind just will say "where got such thing will hapen"
coz talk is easy but action is hard ..
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@write2adaline (98)
• United States
17 May 07
My problem with most of the posts on here is that people "think" they will love someone forever, or they will love them IF they are good and make them happy. Well let me say this...people aren't always good to other people..and that goes both ways. And we don't always make people happy because we are human. However, I KNOW that I will love my lover, my husband forever. That is a CHOICE I made when we got married. Love is not something that comes and goes like the wind. Love is a choice, an action, and something that we have to work at. The emotions and butterflies may come and go, but real love is something that we do.
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@write2adaline (98)
• United States
2 Jun 07
Well, I think you are being naive about that. The point is whether we intend to or not, we hurt people sometimes by mistake. Not because we want to or meant to, but because we are imperfect humans who make mistakes. My statement was referring to the fact that many of the other posters sounded like if their partner made a mistake and wasn't good to them 100% of the time that they would not love them anymore. And I think it is unreasonable to think someone is that perfect. I agree that you can love your lover forever but it isnt always butterflies and goosebumps. Life is hard and that affects a relationship whether people like it or not. It still takes work and anyone who has been in a successful relationship beyond the "honeymoon" years knows that to be true. My husband and I try to be good to each other all the time and we do a good job of accomplishing that but again as humans in the real world, work, families, and other outside stressors can cause us to get upset with each other, etc. We WORK through it, though. And we continue on loving each other even more than we did when we were first married, but that's not to say that love is easy or always the way it appears in the movies.
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@Jellytang (698)
• China
2 Jun 07
After reading your opinion,what I have to say is that communication well is very important in our daily life.Do you think so?
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@Jellytang (698)
• China
1 Jun 07
I don't agree with you.I believe that some people will love their lovers forever and treat them well all the time once they fell in love with each other.
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@daisyboo (2)
• United States
10 May 07
I feel like I will love my lover forever but I can't say for sure that I will be IN love with him forever.
We have shared some of the most precious memories of my life, and even if it were to end today I could walk away knowing that I will forever love him.
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@Jellytang (698)
• China
13 May 07
Preciou memories have large power to pull people together with love.It seems to be romantic.
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@haliparot (43)
• Philippines
2 Jun 07
me and the father of my son are living together for almost 5 years, he already wants to be married,but i'am afraid..because i have this feeling that, what if he is not the one for me? and i feel that it hurts more when you are married and broke up.. for me "love" is within the person..you can live with that person for the whole life even if you don't have a "piece of paper"
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@Jellytang (698)
• China
4 Jun 07
In your case,I think you had better have a seriouse talk with your son's father.To tell him about your idea and catch the chance when it knocks the door.
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@hussainullah (30)
• Pakistan
8 Jun 07
yes i will love much tell my end of life i wil forget for her. i m not happy with out love to her
