why love hurts sooo much!!

hi, love hurts every time and at every moment its hurts when you are lonely.love has many definition to make people fall in love and people knows about love who fallen in love. in my view it is the most scruplous thing in peoples life who fall in love. its give only pain, sorrow, lonliness.

Hehehe.....I think because the hurt is caused by the one you love. When I quarreled with my hub, I always felt heart-broken and shouted at him: "You are the person who hurt me the most in the world. Why?!" Now I know what he did was not the most serious thing that hurt you, and it did not mean that he wanted to hurt you more than the others, it's just because you care him/her the most, and you care the most any trifle thing he/she does, so the least thing that hurt you would become the most hurt in your heart.

yes, no matter how painful it is to accept and no matter how many people say it wasn't supposed to be that way, there is no equation for love and it will hurt no matter how much we try to avoid it if and only if its true. love gives the greatest feeling anyone may feel but once betrayed, it would hurt a lot!!but one good thing about it though is that no matter how may times our hearts get broken it will continue to know how to love because the heart is the only broken thing that can still function. so good news for you because no matter how hurtful you feel now everything will pass, just learn to accept that a relationship doesn't end without both sides letting it, remember "it takes two to tango". learn to accept that people tend to have misgivings, no one can hurt you if you won't let them but since you gave them permission to do it when you gave them your love (your heart) you have to accept that when you love, you give them a part of you that you can never get back so, with all of these, you should be ready to get hurt to be able to see the real and greatest love anyone can have. just like, you have to cry to have laughter. you have to feel sad to be able to know what real happiness is. 'ayt? ;)