Did you ever disappointed your mom?

Hi there! I have disappointed my mother a lot of times before when I was younger but the major disappointment was when I got married without being able to finish my studies. I am one year away from graduation when I got married. I came from a broken family and me and my three sisters lived with my mom, me just for a couple of years since I lived with my grandmnother most of the time. I promised my mother that I will finish my studies first, then work and helped her with my younger sisters' education. But then I got married and up to now, I haven't finished my studies but I was happy to regain her love and trust and even gave her real happiness when my son, her first grandchild was born.

everyday my mom is disapponted on me and everyday I am also disappointed for her!

I probably did many things to disappoint my mom, but overall, I turned out okay and so I choose to look at the big picture instead of picking out any mistakes I made along the way. The important thing is I learned from my mistakes and grew as a person. As a result, my mother is proud of that fact instead of dwelling on any way I may have disappointed her.

I feel ashamed to say yes, I did disappoint my mum now and again. It's not that I am rebellious but that I'm not patient enough to accompany her most of the time. I prefer to stay alone with my own interest like mylot or my own work instead of watching TV with her or chat with her which she would like to do very much. I easily lose patience and withdraw to my study room to enjoy my time.

i think the worst thing that i've done to my parents is that i put them into debt.. i get involved in this online thingy.. and now it really takes me some time to solve it.. i think it's okay.. since i will help to solve this problem.. they send me to college hoping that i will study hard and become someone useful.. but.. i use the borrowed money from government to invest in this online investment.. now i'm in debt because many investment went down.. i think i really dissapoint them.. but i havent' tell them the truth yet..do you think i should tell them the truth?

Searching my memory, the worst thing I ever did to my father when I was a teen was a very rude word I said to him,which made my father very angry with me, when my father ordered me to do something I didn't want to. My father always ordered us to do things, but as I grew up, I refused to do accordingly. That was a time when I was very rebellious. Thinking of this, it makes laugh a lot. If my son said such a word to me, I had no idea what I would think about it. I have been a very good-tempered person since I became a high school student. That was the only time I did bad to my father. Of course, my father loves us and I love him as well.

yeah friend..the topic you have chosen for discussion is good and is not an unique thing to happen only at some place..it's a thing(influence) which makes the child and mom's relation..no one in this world have come across without disappointing their mom.. so,i'm also not a perfect human for not disappointing my mom..but,she won't expect for the sorries and excuses..

its not really the worst thing but i disappointed my parents especially my mother when i get married at an early age without helping them about our daily life. I do regret it now but not having a wonderful daughter beside me everyday. I just strive hard to earn some cash and help me them soon as I help myself.

its not really the worst thing but i disappointed my parents especially my mother when i get married at an early age without helping them about our daily life. I do regret it now but not having a wonderful daughter beside me everyday. I just strive hard to earn some cash and help me soon as I help myself.

It is on many occasions i have dissappointed my parents,because although they were well meaning wanted me todo what they felt best for me, not let me do something i needed to do

Oh...it seem so sad to you... :( But my oppinion is just keep on trying your best to get the trust.I believe that one day your will get what you want. About me,the worst thing that i've done with my parents is i keep on failed my exam,i made them feel so dissapointed. When the first time i failed my exam,my father had stop to support me for my study,but i dont want to give up. But i do know is because of my brother.....n home financial problem,so my father will made this dicision. I nvr blame my dad. Now my mother is supporting me for my study,but i do use my account money too. Although is my account money,but i do know is given by my father also. Now i just trying my best for my study. Hope wont dissapoint my parents again.

Hey friend it happened to me also many times.. i have disappoinet my mom terriblly wen she came to know that i have an affair with my ex_ boyfriend.. tat time she was really upset on me.. she didnt speak to me for many days... then later on i was back on track.. i obeyed my parents, and ended up my immature relationship.. now tat trust factor is back again.. i ahve gained it back by obeying her and doing my duties well

Hi Kcrysea i to disappointed my mom.At that time i really felt bad.But i mom never let to know me and she even says i never disappoint her.But i fell i made her disappointed.This happens in my sisters marriage.As iam elder i have to take care of wedding especially groom.But due to my shorttemper i make a littel mess.Later every thing is all right except that.

yes many times.....as we grow up we feel whatever we think is right and our parents are wrong but thats not the way...sometimes i realize the care my mother shows towards me n what i give her bac....but one thing which she also knows is that i love her the most in the world and will always do come what may...

I think I may have been a perpetual disappointment to my parents. LOL I think we all disappoint our parents at one time or another-or two-or three-hmm. Maybe as human beings, we are doomed to disappoint one another at times. My parents were unaware of most of my activities-fortunately. That's probably the worst thing I did to them. The secrecy and deception part. They knew I was no angel-but they didn't have a clue to the "real" me. Rebellion is natural-it comes to every generation twice. Once as young adults and then as the older generation-or parents. Be thankful for your parents love and make sure they know you love them-no matter what happens between you. Always be sure of the love.

Hi kcrysea! When i look back to my past i am not very happy the way i have treated my Mom. Manyatimes i have taken her for granted and treated her like dirt. I have hit her, spit food on her, told innumerous lies and the list is long.I know i had been a disappointment for her. I cannot undo what i did because my Mom is no more now. She passed away because of Cancer almost 10 years back.

what you said,maybe everyone will meet it during their grow time. I think it is a normal not only you,only pass this time ,we grow up more and more ,then become a good adult really.

yes several times. It came to a point that I left the house. I dunno why but I love my father and my granda than her.

Yes in our daily lives we somehow hurt people close to us iententionally or unintentionally....but we should try our best not to hurt our parents...

To became rebellious is normal in someones life when their way and interests cross over the mom's plans for her doter/son so don't bother it is natural.. you have your way of seeing the world and your parent the other.. be patient and clear your way out.