How will you know that your husband cheats you or not?

If you are good at reading his expression, then I suggest that you tell him some fictitious story of some person living abroad who's having an affair. Closely watch his reaction. If he overacts and says that it is such an immoral thing and goes on and on about it, then you have reason to suspect. Or, if he tries to change the topic, then also there is something wrong.

I am one of those who has learned to rely on my gut feelings and woman's intuition. It is 99% right. If you sense that something is amiss that you couldn't explain and put your finger on, most likely there really is something wrong. If you feel the wrongness of your husband's statements and assurances that he doesn't cheats yet you notices minor, insignificant and negligible gestures, expressions and even actions that tells you something is not right and he is not telling the truth, then most likely something is going on. However, I wish you all the best and hope that he really is not cheating on you.

ohhh..that's tough. How long have you been married? How long did you stayed together before he left for abraod? In those times, you will know what type of person your husband is. But you cannot just judge him like that? What if for the past year that he's far, he's fighting for temptation and here you are thinking that he is cheating. I think the best thing that you can for now is talk to him frequently and tell him how you really feel and what's you feel right now on your relationship. It's better to do some things to save your relationship than thinking some things that will ruin your relationship with him. Trust him..he's already sacrificing working abroad for you and the family.

Hello jessiealcala Do you believe him? If you do you should not think about that. My bf work in other city, and i trust him very much, and i believe in God that He will take care of him. Pray to God and He will tell you is your husband is cheating on you. Man will changes if they cheat on us, if they talk to us, look likes he don't care with us. But some people said that id husband cheat his wife then he will more care with the wife. Maybe one day you should go to your husband's work and look around. God bless you dear

Jessie, is he spending more time out of town than usual?

Honestly there really isn't anyway for you to know. He works abroad....so there really wouldn't be any of the regular signs of cheating. I guess if he chats on the computer when he is home with you, and seems to be keeping contact with people that he meets (woman of course) than you should be suspicious. Other than that there is no way you could know.