do you prefer picking a fight?

It depends of the situation. I am very impulsive. But there is a phrase that the good soldjer chooses his battles, so some battles are just stupid.

I think we are just the same...I don't like confronting people because i tend to be carried away with my emotions so i just avoid them. But if the other person provoke it, then i will just say my side in a nice way. I am a soft-spoken person so i can't talk really start arguments....I can't handle it.

You know, I am a peaceful man. I always believed in this: "When one doesn't want, two doesn't fight". But one day I got so angry, so angry... I had warned this guy a lot, I told him to stop messing with me. I just turned around and started to fight with him. Some people just don't realize they are annoying! Anyway, I always understood that the quote was wrong. It should be: "When one doesn't want, one gets beaten". And now I can control myself much more easily, I'll only fight if I want. Anger won't control me.