are all men lazy ?
By tictactams
@tictactams (135)
Australia
May 7, 2007 1:46am CST
my partner thinks cause he works he dont have to help out at home he runs his own business so he around home a fair bit but we have a twelve week old and since i got out of hospital the day after having our son i was gettin up all night to bubs then havin to get up at 7am to get other kids ready for school then take them to school then come home clean take care of bubs pick kids up cook tea then do all the dishes i think its pritty rood i think if a guy has a job where he goes and comes home from work when he feels like it that he should help more or at least if i cook wash the bloody dishes or dry them for what do you think are your partners lazy ? i wish he never started his own business now cause he used to help out alot :(
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3 responses
@ulrak14344 (73)
• Philippines
7 May 07
Not all men are lazy. But there might be times that men are just not feeling active and would like to rest. Some men are also real lazy and there is nothing we can do about it. Lol!
@tictactams (135)
• Australia
7 May 07
there sometimes to when women dont feel active either but we seem not to get a choice we have to get things done my man wasnt lazy at first but def is now so lazy that if our little boy cryin in the same room he is in he wont move from his laptop to help me im expected to drop what ever im doin in another room to come deal with him
@KissThis (3003)
• United States
7 May 07
While my boyfriend doesn't do as much as I do around the house I can honestly say he does try to pitch in. If I ask him he will cook dinner for the family. It usually has to be a simple dinner like hamburger helper or stir fry because he doesn't know how to cook.
When we first moved in together he didn't help. I was working full-time, coming home to clean house, cook dinner, and take care of the children. While he would come home and do whatever he wanted. One day I asked him if it was fair for me to have to do all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, and all. Did he think that on top of everything else he was getting a maid? Thats when he started to pitch in more.
@brendalee (6082)
• United States
7 May 07
My boyfriend has his moments but he does cook every night and for that I am greatful. But I have to clean up his mess and he is a very messy cook. I don't work outside the home an I don't have little kids so I don't mind doing most of the work. Not trying to be rude but I think your husband should help you more. You have many kids and many things to do. Men don't always realize what a mom has to do in a day. I don't think many of them could handle it.
