if you are suffering from pain ,whether you will tell your parents or friend?
By bonnie2008
@bonnie2008 (511)
China
May 7, 2007 2:29am CST
I saw a discussion on mylot a moment ago, which mainly talked about mental problem. the discussion made me think of the physical pain lasted for several years from some parts of my body.the cause of the pain i don't want to say here. i didn't tell my parents the truth just because don't hope them to be worried about me , foolish way,isn't it? and i haven't told my friends,i think there is no need to speak to them about this.
My parents and my friend take me as a healthy person, indeed,my experience of pain gives them no trouble,finally i am the only person suffering from pain and despression.everyday live in the moods set up by myself.
I konw many people are suffering disturbance from mental or physical, i don't know what method do you choose to deal with the problem .but even though i don't hope you choose the way similar with me . best wishes to everybody.
3 responses
@munazza (81)
• Pakistan
7 May 07
as far as my physical pains are concerned, I am used to tell both to my parents and my friends. Infact not to all the frinds, but just to my best friend. My best friend is perhaps the frst person whom i tell n dats because i dun want to disturb my parents.They really got disturbed by my pain and hence i try my best not to tell them and try to solve the matter by contacting doctr myself.But if its something serious then ofcourse i share it with my parents
@bonnie2008 (511)
• China
7 May 07
thank you for your right advise.i believe you must be an
open-minded person. I am admire the person like you perhaps who can face everything frankly.
@slytjiaofei (4)
• China
7 May 07
As expected,every one living in dull routine of everyday life has this trouble. People always try to conceal their innate feeling and sentiment when they are faced with disfortunate and sadness. As we are old enough to deal with some situations,I will not tell the truth to my parents not only because worry about their disturbance,but because there is no help,I think,to us all as well.Everyone have some sincerely friends who serve as a harbour when he or she is suffering from mental or physical grievement in the same way when a boat was caught by a highly heavy storm. I am willing to tell my feeling to them,as it is necessary for everyone to release their spiritual pressure. Of course,I will also afford the disfortunate of my friends on other occasions.Such is why friends are support of our life.
@bonnie2008 (511)
• China
7 May 07
Firstly,thank you for your response. Actually i understand what you said.just things like that came to me when i live a peaceful life without any preparation.At that time any disturbance bring me feelings of sadness. but no problem,just like you say we are old enough to deal with these problem.
by the way, you have made a great response,thank you. good luck!
