Did an affair causes a divorce? What can we do about it?

Singapore
May 7, 2007 3:13am CST
1)If a wife is having an affair and the husband got to know about it, what should he do? 2)If a husband is having an affair and the wife got to know about it, what could she do? Please put a number to your answer. Thanks! P.S, For a little tip on what to do, read the the true story at: http://www.freegiftsoflove.blogspot.com
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@ellie26 (4139)
• Malaysia
7 May 07
If a wife caught having an affair by her husband : 1. The husband should have a heart to heart talk If the wife caught the husband cheating: 1. Talk things out.
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• United States
7 May 07
1) Don't give up at least at first. Sometimes the effect of time just has you taking for granted her and forgetting about the great qualities she has. Sometimes it just has to be brought to the forefront of your memory. Marriage is beautiful don't be too quick to throw the towel in. The grass is greener on the other side comes to mind. 2) I would make home a special place for him to come to. To have him know that he has a safe haven to come to. Then I would remind him how much I love him and appreciate all he has done for me. I would pick something we did in our younger years of marriage and reenact it. Picking something that had meant a lot to the both of us.
• United States
7 May 07
One other thing is I don't think a affair can always end up in divorce. Both husband and wife are human and mistakes are made. Forgiving is one of the first things that need to be done. Also the affair should never be thrown up to the person. A marriage can survive it and be stronger. But it takes time to rebuild the trust that was there in the beginning.