what do you do if you feel lonely ??

@niang03 (147)
China
May 7, 2007 10:33am CST
Lately i felt lost,empty,and so damn alone..i didn't know why,even a lot of my friends just there around me but i still felt alone..1 question twisted on my head, Am i exist? do they realize my existence? will they care? what should i do? somehow i wanna go somewhere and hiding from them,but somehow i really need them to cheer up my life..have you ever felt alone, the same as i did?how to overcome it??
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• Indonesia
9 May 07
CORRECT once... Sometime I also often feel such a thing... Be like castaway and feel worthlessly. I have already Feel like that 2 years ago. Why I can say that? Because my best friend pass me. Thought i even also have never affronted and think ugly think about her, behind of me... she libel me... Everybody shall around me affect and finally i am got accross and i have no friend. At this momment... i really feel that i am no use and confuse.. what should i have to do? i gaze in sorrow. But fortunately, I have mother. She is a people who motivate me always... She say that... sometime us might possibly glorious... but one day we will under. So Long as we can stay and always good thinking.. We can past it with along time.. Finally my friend which have affected it realizing. I can realize that many people love us. We don't only selfsupporting. Most valuable estae according to me affection in family. Hateful others and refuse us... Our family which can never throw away us expecially mother.
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@niang03 (147)
• China
9 May 07
Good that your mother always support..thanks to her...i couldn't think why your best friend did it to you..well,fortunately the truth always come at the end and when we need it,rite?..
• Indonesia
9 May 07
Yapz... that's right... I don't suspect why she do that. But she say that I grab her friend... hahahhaha...... That's funny right? What should u do if u r in my position? .
@lani0529 (1722)
• Philippines
7 May 07
Hello niang!(",) It seems that you have a problem with your friends and family. There is no doubt that your family loves you and cares for you alot. I suggest that you talk to your friends about how you feel. It's better to tell somebody close to you so that you can ventilate your feelings and you will fell okay somehow.(",) When I get lonely, I often reflect on the beautiful memories I had with my closest friends and I do pray for guidance. Praying is also one way to remind me that God loves me no matter what others say.(",) And that reason alone makes me feel that this life is worth living for.(",) Great day and hope you will feel better in the coming days!(",)
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• Pakistan
7 May 07
well said...yeah sometimes we just forget for time being that our friends and family loves us. And yes praiyng helps alot...thanx for guiding us infact and making me remind that God loves me no matter what other say
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@niang03 (147)
• China
9 May 07
Hi lani..thx for ur advice..you right,i should talk to my closest friend,try to remember the beautiful memories we ever had,so i can still remember that they are really care 'bout me..oh,also pray to God is good solution too.
@yanjiaren (9031)
14 May 07
I THINK MY FRIEND, THE BEST WAY TO OVERCOME LONELINESS IS TO LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF FIRST, WITH ALL YOUR FAULTS AND FAILINGS, WHEN THAT HAPPENS YOU WILL BECOME A MAGNET TO DRAW OTHERS CLOSE TO YOU AND YOU WILL BUILD AN INTIMACY WITH THEM THAT YOU NEVER HAD BEFORE. WE ARE ARE WORST REPELLENT LOL AND IT TOOK ME FORTY ODD YEARS TO LEARN TO START LOVING MYSELF,, FROM THEN ON, I THEN KNEW WHAT REAL LOVE AND FRIENDSHIP WERE ABOUT. IF YOU CANNOT LOVE YOURSELF YOU CANNOT REALLY LOVE OTHERS AND YOU WILL FEEL EMPTY AND LONELY INSIDE. i HOPE THIS MAY OPEN A DOOR OF LIGHT TO YOU AND YOU START ATTRACTING REAL FRIENDS WHO GENUINELY WILL CARE FOR YOU AND WANT TO SHARE YOUR HEART AND THOUGHT, WORST COMES TO WORSE, YOUR MAD GREEK FRIEND IS HERE IF EVER YOU WANT TO TALK LOL, ZHIDAO MA?
• China
11 May 07
patpats ** wowww... what kind of loneliness do u have ?that make u feel so lonely like that . well,.. if it's for me.. i think i'll go outside , going to eat with friends,..hanging out with them ^^ yeahh or go for shopping wif them ,.. emm u can also watch tv / movie/ drama in ur room.. hohoho listenning music,. or respond to discussion in here ?? ^^ lol
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@niang03 (147)
• China
12 May 07
hahahaha,nice idea friend!!!^^...i will consider for shopping or eating,/gg/gg
@niang03 (147)
• China
12 May 07
hahahaha...nice idea..i will consider fot shopping or eating with friends since the girls here really like to eat^^
@mkmsam531 (267)
• Philippines
7 May 07
We all have our times of being lonely and feeling empty. When i feel something like that i want to shut off my self from the rest of the world. I just lay on my bed trying to understand how i feel. It also helps to write about your feelings in your journal until you feel better. Another way of overcoming loneliness is to jog around. It clears my head.
@niang03 (147)
• China
9 May 07
Hi mkmsam..yeah, i will consider it..trying somethin new to drive away my loneliness..thx.
@munazza (81)
• Pakistan
7 May 07
yeah i do fel same at moments when i dun know whats the actual problem and when i simply cant understand myself...At such times, i usually just keep quiet and dont talk to any one rather i just switch off my cell phone and respond to any friend.Just lay on my bed and start writing my feelings on my diary and keep this activity until i dun feel; better
@niang03 (147)
• China
9 May 07
Yeah..sometimes i did what you did even didn't answer when my friend called me...i think i should pray to God and try to tell my closest friend what happened at those moment.
@abaksj (313)
• India
9 May 07
I to simply call my gf, Angel
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@daring (234)
• India
12 Oct 07
usually i did singing and watching movies if it was night or evening i do read the books or else i got to sleep thats the way i spent when i feel lonely
@arsena (293)
• Germany
20 May 07
I was very often feeling alone even I was maybe envolved in a relationship. But I have things that I like and cheer me up as music or computer games. Or playing guitar alone. Now I have my boyfriend and I don'T feel so lonely anymore and because we live together sometimes I even enjoy being a short time alone.
@brand4less (1061)
• Indonesia
13 May 07
feel lonely..hmm..for truth i rarely have thoughts like u have.i don't like to put heavy thoughts coz i try to avoid stress as hard as i can.i give myself a limit to feel sad or stress,lol.for example:when i was broke up w/my ex,was sooo damn sad,then i let myself to cried only 3 days,after that 3 days i stopped and looked another nice things to do to made me busy.when i feel lonely,i watch dvd films,browsing into internet,(now)login to myLot,listen music,blabla,anything i will do.don't let your blue feelings take control of u, u are the one who can control yourself.
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