have you ever find yourself worried about committment?

Philippines
May 7, 2007 8:06pm CST
for the people who is currently in a relationship or to those single..have you ever felt that?and if ever,why are you so worried and what are the factors on why are you afraid or worried..? on my own points of view,if you think you are responsible enough and you think you are ready to handle committment,then why worry?right? how about you?share your thoughts..
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• United States
8 May 07
I used to think I was afraid of committment because every time I would go out with a guy I just didn't want to be with him for very long or as soon as he started to get serious I booked it and took off running until I met my husband there was just something about him that made me want to be with him and only him and I knew it from the start. I wasn't even looking for a relationship much less a bf, but am so glad that I found him.
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• Philippines
9 May 07
now that you've found your husband..are you still afraid of committment?(what a question..lol!i guess not..coz if you are,you wouldnt marry your husband and be with him for your entire life..right?)
• Philippines
9 May 07
now that you've found your husband..are you still afraid of committment?(what a question..lol!i guess not..coz if you are,you wouldnt marry your husband and be with him for your entire life..right?)
• Philippines
8 May 07
I'm married, but once upon a time I had that feeling of worry towards committing to my partner. I had a lot of reasons, here are 3: 1) Financial worries - am i financially capable of getting into a serious relationship and being responsible towards making a family. 2) Right partner - is she really the person for me or is there someone else. 3) Bachelor worries - i'm not ready to give up my bachelor life. Of the three reasons above, number 2 is the more likely reason for most to have second thought when getting into a committed relationship. When you have doubt about the right person there is reason to be worried.
• Philippines
9 May 07
yeah your right!those reasons makes sense..before entering into a marriage life,you need to consider those things..and you need not to hurry..coz that's a great risk to take..you need to think about it so many times before committing yourself into a marriage life..
• United States
8 May 07
Yeah thats true. I also think if you have to think twice about if you really want to be with the person then maybe you really don't want them for long term and maybe the relationship should end it. I knew after being with my husband after like 2 weeks I wanted to always be with him. I knew I didn't love him yet or wasn't in love with him yet but I knew he was it.
@soccermom (3198)
• United States
8 May 07
I was afraid of commitment most of my dating years. I don't know why, I just always thought that I'd find something or someone better. Then I got married and it ended horribly. I didn't want any committed realtionship after that. My divorce papers weren't even final before I settled in with my current hubby. Like someone else that posted here, I wasn't looking for it, it just felt right, and I couldn't imagine being without him.
• Philippines
9 May 07
so now..are you ready to committ again?i cant blame you for being afraid to committ into another relationship because of what had happened..but now that you've found your hubby...do you still want committment?
• Philippines
8 May 07
no, im not worried about having a commitment! what im afraid of is having a long distance relationship, i dont know if i can hadle that. all it need is full of trust to your partner, and i dont know if i can have a peace of mind if i dont know what my partner is doing around without me at his side.
• Philippines
9 May 07
as they say..love cannot live if there is no trust..you need to take the risk of having that kind of relationship..you need to exert extra effort,more time,and more trust..having that kind of relationship is difficult to handle and risky..and we can never tell if he'll meet someone there or you might meet someone..