About my relationship
By fadlee
@fadlee (19)
Indonesia
May 7, 2007 10:38pm CST
Hi, I have a girlfriend. we are so much love each other and everybody in my campus know that we are the unscraped couple. Although we are fully in love, there are some men who like my girlfriend. They're always see in my girlfriend as if they undress her. Man! I really really don't like them! And I just wanna punch them or maybe kill them because they are really really Bast**d in me! Can you guys give me a solution, what should I do with this case?
3 responses
@joice86 (1078)
• Philippines
8 May 07
Having a beautiful girlfriend is something that is difficult to deal with. Especially when a lot of men also like her.
Can i ask if your girlfriend gives any motive for the men to treat her that way. Does she wear sexy clothes because if yes, then men are really going to treat her that way.
If you like that men will not treat her that way, then try to tell your gf to be simple in a way that men will not look like as if they are undressing her because you can't really avoid men to look at her that way.
@fadlee (19)
• Indonesia
13 May 07
No,no no. my girlfriend has never done any wrong or the other move that motives that bas**rd men to treat her like that. that's why I'm so confuse untill now, why do they always looking at my girlfriend like that? Yeah, I know that my girlfriend is one of the beautiful woman, and I also think that her body is not bad enough, mmm...you know what I mean ,don't you? but, honestly, my girlfriend is always take care about herself, such the way that she does in dressing, moving, and the other else. Yes, this is the consecuence.Maybe, those bas**rd men always think of negative thing when they look at my girlfriend because they think that my girlfriend is sexy.Damn! what should I do now?
@joby_09 (498)
• Philippines
8 May 07
Several factors could be driving other guys to look on your girlfriend.
Try answering these questions:- How does your girlfriend dress? Does she dress or look like she doesn't have a boyfriend? Or is she just plainly attractive? (If she's the "hot" type, you can't avoid guys from turning their heads at her and imagine doing something nasty. If this is the case, i suggest you talk to your gf about it but in a friendly and polite way, the one that will not embarrass her or make her feel that she is a cheap hussy)
- Does she entertain those guys that hang around despite of being in a relationship with you? (If your answer is yes, you might be having a big problem here. It only means that your gf is also the problem. If that's the case, try discussing it with her)
- Is she aware that this is how you feel? (I think it is important the she knows how you feel so that she'll know what to do)
The things i've mentioned are not definite solutions to your problem. These are just suggestions. Hope it helps!=)
