will you follow your dream? or your parents dream? or both.

I'm going to answer this one as a parent. I would like to think my son, who is only 4 yrs old, will grow up to become successful in life, but I will not be pressuring into any occupation. It needs to be a choice he has made himself. I would hate the idea that he is only in a certain profession because he thinks its what I wanted, and being miserable. I will support him in the furure with whatever decisions he makes.

If my dream and my parents dream matches then It would have been Great. But obviously it doesnt. My dream is my parents and I beleive that their dream should be fulfilled. Its only then I will be happy as to see the sparkling face to my parents. My parents dream is important to me coz of which i have lost my love. may be i will be blessed coz of this by fulfilling their dreams/

my parents dream for me and for the entire family is actually my dream. currently i live in it. seriously, its my life right now, im still a atudent and all i could think of the future right now is THEM AS MY SUCCESS. my parents doesnt hinder what i want to do when i get the chance to have it all fulfilled. well of course as long as its for the good of myself and for the others as well.

i know every parents wants the best for her children but as to my experience i have regret that i follow what my mother to what she would like to take me as my field of study . Eventhough its not my personal choice and im not happy for it, i still took it and finish it out of respect and not to upset her. If i didnt took what she like im sure she will treat me as disgrace of the family and its really a hard feeling. So now what im trying to say is that, its not always right to follow parents like because every person has its unique personality and God give us minds to think whats good for us. Parents are just there to guide us and mold us into a better person but it doesnt mean as parents they should interfere and force their children to follow what they like you to be. What i learn is that if i choose and make stand on what i like to pursue i probably much happier now, productive and successful now on my choosen field. Sometimes there are parents who are selfish becuase they insist there choice because they said that was good for their children , yes maybe it is but the truth is, its their field dream that they want their children to continue. Its not bad if the child follow it whole heartedly but if its not, the parents should respect it and support their children to what they would like to choose. Godbless!