about ex-boyfriends

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A friend asked me of how i think of ex-boyfriends, and if it is just right to continue being friends with them even after the relationship,and ofcourse i can't give a concrete answer to that cos it depends on the person and the situation they're into. Personally speaking, I only had one ex-boyfriend, and we never became friends after breaking up. But since he is the 'my first love', then maybe i could say that I probably would never ever forget him in my entire life; and that means both in a positive and in a negative way. We've been together for almost 11months, but the coping period or the healing process I went through took a bit longer than the whole period of the relationship. It took me more than a year before I could totally succumb with the reality and to finally say that I've gotten over him. It wasn't easy to be dealing with all the heartaches especially that I was experiencing all of those at such an early age (I was barely 14 at that time.) Whenever I think of my ex before, I seek with rage, I think with angst....i totally hate everything about him! But now, being the more mature person I'am, at age 19, I have come to realize that however remorseful that chapter of my life was, I needed to endure it all to become a better person. Had I not experied it (waiting, shedding bucketful of tears, etc) then there could be no chance that I'll meet my now boyfriend of three years whose been so supportive and loving of me. I had to be in that situation for me to be able to see my worth and to appreciate myself more. This and many more I have learned from my past relationship. Truly, my ex-boyfriend taught me one of the greatest lessons I've learned in life.