what would you do if your girlfriend doesn't seem to care about you??
By kahnshakey
@kahnshakey (71)
Philippines
May 8, 2007 3:40pm CST
she says she love me, but it doesn't show, she says that she cares but doesn't even let you feel it. it some way or another its feel that your nothing but an ordinary guy who bumped into her life.
I love my girlfriend. and i haven't feel anything this hard/pain before. im still hanging on. she told me to quit because she dont want to see me hurting. She told me that she doesn't now how to handle me, (i'm not a thing to be handle). i need the attention that is denied to me, love that is hidden form me.
It feels that we are on BOYFRIEND AND GIRLFRIEND by name.
and its really hard for me.
what should i do?? i Love Her so Much and im gonna hold on to this..
help me what should i do..please
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3 responses
@lani0529 (1722)
• Philippines
8 May 07
Hello kahnshakey!(",)
Every person has her/his own way of expressing love to another person. It could be that your girlfriend is not that showy in expressing love to you. Try to observe how she shows her emotion. Are you his first ever boyfriend? Maybe its true that she has this difficulty in handling the relationship.(",)
I think that the most important thing that you can do is open up to her. Be honest that you are hurting deep inside. In that way, she will be aware of how you truly feel about your relationship.(",) Another point that I can see is that, what if your girlfriend is just testing you to know if you really love her. Some resort to that having been hurt in the past.
Just show her that you love him and hope things will work out between the two of you. In a relationship breaking up is the decision of the 2. If you can still hold on and if you think that the relationship is worth fighting for then, go on but, if you think that there is nothing in the relationship then, what's the use. It's really up to the 2 of you.(",)
As you said that you love her then, love her more!(",) God bless!(",)
@kahnshakey (71)
• Philippines
11 May 07
thanks 'teh
maybe it takes me time to fully understand her.
understand everything about her...
ingatz lagi..ang libre nmin hah...heheh
@curvychick77 (1084)
• United States
8 May 07
Have you tried telling her how you feel? In a way it might work out better if you asked her how she feels about you and the relationship. Sometimes people are uncomfortable in relationships out of fear, or just the fact that they are unsure about it. I really hope that things work out. Good luck, and let us know what happens.
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@kahnshakey (71)
• Philippines
8 May 07
hmmmm i've tried my best to talk to her.to open things up. its like everytime im going to ask her out she got this alibis. She's busy in academics. the fact that hurt me the most is that she cant spent time with me, she spends her time likely on her friends, and other things. she dont know how to handle me. its what she says..
ill keep you informed on whatever may happen in this relationship that im into..
thanks
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@munhozmib (3836)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
9 May 07
I was in this situation. But in my case, I didn't love my girlfriend. I stayed with ther because I though she loved me. Still, she never talked to me. I went there to talk to her, and said "Hi!". She only replied sadly "Hi...". And I tried to start a conversation: "How was your day?". She always said: "I dunno...". I though with myself what was going on. I asked: "What do you mean by 'I dunno?'". And she replied "Dunno...". It was always like that. So boring, she didn't love me, I think. Then I just chose to cut our relationship. Then she came crying saying she loves me... And I looked at her and said: "What the f... You love me how? You never showed me that?".
Five minutes after that she was laughing with her friends. :P
Just work on your relationship. What are you bad points? Make them become good!
