Do you think men are less sensitive then women?

United States
May 8, 2007 3:54pm CST
I think men don't cry as easily as women and what a woman feels is important a man may simply laugh at..You ever feel like this???
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@oriental (1050)
• Uruguay
9 May 07
There is a book written quite many years ago that tells about the different forms of thinking and feeling of women and men: "Men are from Mars, women are from Venus". I found it very interesting.
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• United States
9 May 07
Yes..I never read it but I do believe that men and women are on two totally different levels..Why women are sensitive and cry easily ..men tend to hold back feelings ..it's how they have been taught: "boys don't cry"..and put up a tough front..In general..but not always..
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@magica (3707)
• Bulgaria
8 May 07
There are some sensitive men too.But most of them use their feelings on different way. And if one woman cries for at least thing-this is not a synonim of sensibility too.
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• United States
8 May 07
Now come on..women don't cry for the least thing..do they?? lol boo hoo..am crying now ..you hurt my feeligns;)..Thanks for contributing your thoughts on this issue;)+
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@Tetchie (2932)
• Australia
13 May 07
Generally men are less sensitive. They have also been brought up to have a tougher exterior or facade. But if you get through the facade they are as sensitive and vulnerable as anybody. Paradoxically I believe it takes a strong man to cry, there is a huge amount of strength for a man to show feelings.
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• United States
13 May 07
I agree..it does take a strong man to cry....But because of the norm society puts out..men tend to be straight faced in the midst of sorrow;)+
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@urbandekay (18278)
14 May 07
Actually medical studies have not shown that at all, though I understand why you might think that. This whole area is fraught with difficulties, even about talking about it and talking inaccurately can mislead us. It may be that medical studies have shown that there is a differance in brain activity between men and women (like to see a reference to this) but brain activity is not thinking. Until anyone provides a satisfactory identity theory of mind or a convincing reductionist account we are justified in regarding mind and brain as different. all the best urban
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@Tetchie (2932)
• Australia
14 May 07
I also want to give credence to what urbandekay is saying. Really the only difference between men and women is the plumbing. If you get to the core of a man and get to the core of a woman there is no difference. The holding of emotions in different ways is a generalization, like norms of society. But feelings and emotions are no different. I've seen this many times.
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• United States
16 May 07
Now you've got me really upset
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• United States
16 May 07
Who got you upset? And how?:)+
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• Malaysia
15 May 07
hmm..i think in general women might agree with this. some men are insensitive, but not all. maybe it's because guys tend to forget things easily, and some things that girls regard as important, but to the guys it might mean nothing...and guys sometimes doesn't seem to realize the things that they've done wrong or keep doing things that make girls mad etc..sorry, no offence guys. not all of you are like that, some are and some aren't heheheh ;)
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• United States
16 May 07
We can't exist without men and they without us..lol..but fact is fact..I remember drivin in the car with a friend of mine..who happen to be male..some time ago..we got lost..and I kept telling him..to stop here..or there..and he refused to admit he was lost..finally he stopped and said will you go in and tell them you got lost???LOL
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@golfproo (1839)
• Canada
16 May 07
I dont know about this. I think it depends on the individual really. I know I am not afraid to cry if the situation warrants it. However, it all depends on the individual and the situation.
• United States
16 May 07
Men do cry and women do cry..but men have a different hormonal make up then women.. It's what makes women irratable during certain times. and men less fearful at other times..It's in the hormones..not just the brain waves..The whole make up of man and woman was made differently but complimentary to one another..so that it's not a competition but a give and take thing ..;)+
@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
15 May 07
Crying is just one response to a situation - and it is not necessarily the least appropriate response for that person. Men and women (and, indeed, all individuals) will respond differently to a particular situation and an apparent lack of response doesn't indicate less sensitivity - it may mean that that person is less able to handle their emotions than someone who responds by weeping. Sensitivity is one thing. The way people allow their sensitivity to affect them is quite another.
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• United States
16 May 07
Perhaps ..owlwings ..you were lucky enough to have parents tell you it's ok for boys to cry..but many grow up feeling that is not a manly thing to do..Science though has pointed out that there are some noteable differences in male/ female brain parts..:)+
• United States
16 May 07
it really depends. it seems this way, but is not always like this. i've found men just as sensitive as women, and women just as strong as men
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• United States
16 May 07
True..but you can't change the biological clocks in the two..although there has been some efforts in changing hormones and biological factors for those who wish to change who they are..physically;)+
@urbandekay (18278)
12 May 07
I was really tempted to answer this question but decided against it all the best urban
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• United States
12 May 07
urban ..it would have been nice if you did answer this..since I want to see how people feel about the statement..I know men think differently then women and women differently then men..I would not been upset if you contradicted my statement; it would make for a good discussion;)+
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@urbandekay (18278)
13 May 07
Ok, then I answer no.
@urbandekay (18278)
13 May 07
I don't buy into all that Men are from mars.... nonsense. At the end of the day we are more similar than we are diferent, if you cut me do I not bleed? We all experience, love, hate, pain, joy, etc. If two people experience the same emotional crisis and one reacts vocally and one does not, do you say the first is more sensitive, thought both may be experiencing the same. In fact the one that does not express their pain may be having a worse experience. If by sensitive you mean something more akin to empathy then again the same holds since there is no direct relationship between understanding another's situation and how you react. We have become accustomed to thinking about people in terms of their behaviour, that is to say, mechanistically. We have become accustomed to thinking that there is a straightforward relationship between what is experienced and what is expressed. But this is not the case, pain is not pain behaviour. All the best urban
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• Philippines
15 May 07
I have met some pretty sensitive men. I think once you catch their trust and heart, they open up like roses.~~lol It's pretty funny sometimes, how a man can look cold and insensitive to others. But the reality, especially when you know them better. All of it, is just a facade, a masquerade to hide their true feelings. I had a guy bestfriend before in my late teens. He courted this girl and loved her so much. But he had a reputation of being to friendly with all gals. So you know, she thought he wasn't serious. I didn't know too that day he had his heart badly broken. He got drunk. His parents and siblings didn't noticed anything particular to his behavior and it was his birthday after all. But once, our eyes met, I knew he was hurt and he cried.~~lol And being a good bestfriend to him, you can imagined the mess I had to clean up. ~~lol His sister was shocked, because she thought he was happy. It's his birthday, his guy friends and relatives were there too. But it's amazing how a simple silent comfort from someone who knows you the best, broke the facade. I think men sometimes are more complex than women. They are sensitive too, but maybe the "man" label is of too much great maintenance. That's why to show sensitivity would break it easily and to rebuild their composure, it's more of a tough job for them then us woman. ~~lol Thank you for this post LittleFrans, it made me smile a lot, especially to remember my guy bestfriend. ~~lol (^^,)
• United States
16 May 07
I guess I picked a winner ..it's something men and women tend to quabble about quite a bit..I know many times I can cry..and one of my friends who is of the opposite gender just laughs..That only adds water to tear ducts..I simply feel they don't feel as we do..or see as we do..and I know if they had to go through one of our monthly they would call off work till it was over;)LOL..jk Joy
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• India
14 May 07
well, women are more emotional and sensitive and i had read it in livescience newsletter that nerves per inch in woman is double than that in men so they are physically more sensitive too! This thing is in the way what nature wanted.... it is natural
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• United States
15 May 07
Ok..I am going to toss you some links..You can make of them what you think:http://www.webmd.com/brain/news/20051202/men-women-use-brain-differently ======== "Larry Cahill, an associate professor of neurobiology and behavior, and Lisa Kilpatrick, a former postdoctoral fellow in his laboratory, have found that the amygdala, an almond-shaped structure found on both sides of the brain, behaves very differently in males and females while the subjects are at rest. In men, the right amygdala is more active and shows more connections with other regions of the brain, even when there is no outside stimulus. Conversely, in women, the left amygdala is more connected with other regions of the brain. In addition, the regions of the brain with which the amygdala communicates while a subject is at rest are different in men and women. The finding could be key to determining why gender-related differences exist in certain psychiatric disorders and how to treat a variety of illnesses."These findings are intriguing because they provide the first hint of what could be a fundamental difference in how the brain is wired in men and women," said Cahill, a fellow at UCI's Center for the Neurobiology of Learning and Memory. "If, even in a resting state, the brain shows such differences between the sexes, it could have far-reaching implications for our study of certain psychiatric and medical disorders."The researchers used Positron Emission Tomography (PET) scans to analyze the brains of 72 healthy, right-handed adults (36 men and 36 women). The subjects were instructed to relax with their eyes closed while being scanned. When the scans were later studied, researchers found that not only was there a difference between the men and women as to which hemisphere's amygdala was more active, but also that the regions of the brain that the amygdala "talked" with were also quite different. In men, the right-hemisphere amygdala showed more connectivity with brain regions such as the visual cortex and the striatum. In contrast, the left amygdala in women was more connected to regions such as the insular cortex and the hypothalamus. The finding led to an unexpected discovery: Many brain areas communicating with the amygdala in men are engaged with and responding to the external environment. For example, the visual cortex is responsible for vision, while the striatum coordinates motor actions. Conversely, many regions connected to the left-hemisphere amygdala in women control aspects of the environment within the body. Both the insular cortex and the hypothalamus, for example, receive strong input from the sensors inside the body. " see in complete format here: http://www.news-medical.net/?id=17253
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@urbandekay (18278)
14 May 07
Have you a reference for that research I can find correlate. In other studies it has been shown that women are less sensitive to pain, though how such a thing can be measured I do not know. all the best urban
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@Tetchie (2932)
• Australia
15 May 07
That could be a reference to child birth! But perhaps it's a pun, I don't think it has validation.
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@manu619 (450)
• India
13 May 07
Ya.. Men's have hard face than womens..
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• United States
13 May 07
Well...so far there is much debate on this subject..I thank you, however, for your input;)+
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• Philippines
17 May 07
Yes I strongly agree that men are less sensetive than women. Mostly men don't cry coz they think they are gays. But for me, men who cries are true men who truly love their betterhalf. what do you think?