suggest me ...what should i do for my love in this condition....!!!!!!!!!!!!

I don't now what you do but I hate people who have this kind of think.why she forcing her??If love each other than nothing can separate you...and if will be rude to her,bring it down the relationship whit her mother not you your girlfriend.

Good u are love is really good. u r good lover. your problem is un solveble by your vies. But u have to convince their parents to stop abt to do marriage of her. If you think it is not possible you have to try to do marriage to your brother as early as possible. Second thing is to prepare and convince your family members abt your marriage.

Why are her parents like that? Are you two old enough not to get married? I suppose they should understand you for not marrying their daughter for the meantime as you have substantial reasons not to do so yet. GOOD LUCK! I just hope everything will going to be alright.Wish you the best!

Try to show your point first. At least let people know your plan. And next, you will have to do something to show people you do care your gf. You may buy some gift for her parents or work hard and save money for a wedding ring. Another thing I can think of is try to find your old brother a gf. Ask help around and bring your old brother to parties to know more girls. If anybody knows any single girls you can also arrange for a blind date. The last thing is, try to understand her parents. A girl can't keep young and beautiful forever. If you love her, you should plan for her happiness as well, and won't let her deliver a baby on her 30's or 40's if she loves kids and want to look younger. You know, the older the harder to recover from baby delivery.

You may not be ready for marriage yet but how about engagement? will they force her to marry someone else if she is engaged to you? If you love each other you should be together

This shouldn't be a problem for you being that you say you love her very much. You should sit and really think about things before you make your decision. At this very moment, can you picture your life with her. How does things seem to be with your in your life for the rest of your life. Then you should think about your life without her. How does your life look like without her in your life. I am sure that is where you will find your answer. See, I believe that if you cannot live without the one that you love, it certainly means that you can only live with that person in your life forever. My friend, search deep within your heart and follow it wherever it might lead you. I hope you can find what you're looking for.

I think you should talk with your girlfriend and come into a decision on what both of you should do. If both of youu truly love each other and are willing to fight for that love, you should go and marry. Remember that there are always consequences for your actions so both of you should be willing to accept and be responsible for the actions you decide to take, whether fighting for your love or giving up on each other. Talk deeply with each other and do what you have to, that which will not give you regrets in the future. Good luck.

Just go on and steal your bride from her family, and get married. And live happily ever after. At the end everything will be OK. That there is the IDEAL thing to do. The movies often have these kinds of plots. Unfortunately, in the world where we live, this isn't always the case, as what you may have found out. Therefore, my advice to you is do what you think is right. And live with that decision. If you want to marry her despite the circumstances, be sure to live up with that decision.

That's a difficult situation i believe. Well, what i'll suggest is be frank with ur gf and at least at this point of time, start to have a real plan ahead as someone is waiting for you, and not knowing if you are worth waiting or not. Show her ur plan, gonna work for another 3 years? More saving? Moving to a new house? Let her know about it and both of you work hard together to achieve the goal.

I am the hopeless romantic and say run away and live happily ever after.

why cannt you get married when you elder brother are not married? is there thing law or religion reason for that? I do not mean to offend, it is already 2006, we all have the right to get our lover. And the people definitely have their rights to select who they want to get married.

i think u should go straight and marry her after taking ur family in confidence and convincing ur elder brother............... if this is not possible and ig the girl also loves u then u have one more option---ask the girl's father to wait for a year or two till ur brother's marriage try to convince him on this point......... best of luck..........remember love always wins.........

I think if you love your gf deeply you should't bring her pressure just because you are not in a situation to marry her.actually i don't you what make you can't marry with her only for your old brother's unmarriage? If you have difficult you should told the reason to your gf's mother. i hope you can deal with the problem all right,good luck for you!