I miss my Mom

I'm the opposite, I'm closer to my Mum than my Dad. I'm just so blessed that both my parents are still around. However, there's nobody quite like your Mum & I know that when her time comes I'll be devastated & I'll never really get over it. I have every sympathy for you. They time heals, but when it actually comes to it, you're just as upset years later, if not more so, than when it first happened, you just learn ways of dealing with it. I'm sure your Mum knows how much you love her, even if you weren't that great @ showing it. Mums find joy in the smallest of things like when you visit, phone, write, text, or welcome them into your home. Even a daft Birthday card or present. You'll be amazed @ what Mums appreciate. You realise now how much you love her & I bet you showed her in ways you didn't realise when she was around. My housemate couldn't afford to get her Mum a mother's day gift this year, but when she apologised to her Mum, her Mum said it was enough the she visited. Don't feel bad. Mum's are great & the best way you can show your love for her now is by remembering her.

Dear, I can understand your feelings..You are missing your mom and should miss your mom..As she bears lots of pain before giving you birth..So for 9 months she bears pains for you only..But I dont understand why you didnt value your mother that time how you forget all that pains of nine month as it was always un bearable..ok any way "better lat than Never" So I will to get piese to your mother...

I also miss my mother she just passed away this past november and im wondering how I will get thru this mothers day with out her. Mothers do such wonderfull things for there daughters always buying them things and cooking foods they like to eat.I always shared a special bond with my mother and will miss her always.

I am really sorry to know this. Yes when we get love instantly then we used to take things for granted .. this is simple human's nature .. but when someone who is so near to us goes far - then we started knowing their real value.. I can't say more about this .. because it makes me feel sad. It'a very emotional discussion you have created.

Hi lovelydame, your situation is kinda similar with me..i really close to my dad..my mom has also passed away almost 7 years because of brain cancer..when she was alive,i always got fight with her..she was kinda protecting me at that time and i thought i didn't have my freedom..Now,she was gone,just my dad,who take care of me till now..i miss my mom..i miss the way she treated me,all for my kindness,even before i hated it..i realize,my mom is the best mom i've ever had.

I with the same felling ~!

yes I miss my mum as well, I was a lot closer to my dad as well, I was a daddys girl and I must admit I used to clash with my mum a lot but gee I would give anything to have them back, I really do believe no one really loves you to the extent your mum and dad love you, 100% unconditional love...