How can one personalise a wedding???

I have seen pictures from different themed weddings. Pirates, Rennesance, masqurade balls, etc. I always liked the idea of a masqurade ball for a Halloween wedding, though a friend of a friend had theirs on New Year's Eve. I saw a story on Nightline the other day about couples who hire choregraphers to help them with the bride and groom dance. They can spice it up and make it unique or help recreate scenes from movies. It was really cool how they did some of them. You can check out the article here: http://abcnews.go.com/Nightline/story?id=3147382&page=1

There are lots of ways to personalize your wedding. For instance, some friends of mine decided to make their wedding movie themed. They walked down a red carpet and got married on a stage under a sign they make that said "Tonight Film: A wedding in Three Acts." They even served popcorn to the guests and had tables filled with candy. Everything felt well organized, but it was also so personal and so "them." Their wedding cake was even fun because they made it out of Hostess cupcakes. Seriously, I think it might have been one of the best weddings I've ever been to. Other things you can do is to make the actual ceremony really personal. You can read poems, write your own vows, etc. I would take some time to look up theme weddings and personalized ceremonies online. People have done some really crazy but really fun things.

This is a really good one because I am planning my celebration too here in the next year or two. If you have kids you can incorporate something in it with them too like give them a bracelet if its a girl and maybe some kind of pendant if you or ur spouse has a boy. You can also pick things that you like that you know would be good for decorations and such. Think of things you have in common like a certain movie, or theme, or hobby. Like my husband and I like to play poker so if I was going to try to do a theme I would probably have like poker things everywhere and maybe even wear a poker hat instead of a vail and he could wear one too. Then for the food have like pizza, pretzels, chips and dip, snack foods because that is what we ususally eat when we are playing. So I hope some of this helps.