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Personally, I think that was just her excuse to smooth over the situation. I think I would let her know in no uncertain terms that a friend should not behave this way, and keep her away from your man. I don't think you have anything to worry about on his part because he never would have told you about it if he had any intentions of being unfaithful. I'm glad that you have a good, FAITHFUL man, they seem to be hard to come by now.

No, you shouldn't be thankful at all. She's a silent devil and you should stay clear off her. Also, you should lett your boyfriend know how appreciative you are of the fact that he's faithful. He must be a real darling as some guys would fall for your friend's stupid trick.

I would have smacked her silly. She only said that she was testing him because he turned her down. He TOLD you about it, not her. She probably wouldn't have said a word about it, if you hadn't confronted her with the information. Think about it. If she was testing him for you, then why didn't she come forward and tell you about it BEFORE you could confront her about it. She isn't your friend. She is attracted to your man and she wants him. The person you don't need to trust is your so-called friend. She isn't your friend. A true friend would never have made a pass at your boyfriend.

No, you're definitely right to be upset. That's just some poor excuse she made up to justify her actions. I wouldn't trust this girl again. If she really had your best interest at heart, she would have come to you in the first place and told you about her "plans". Yeah, better stay as far away from this girl as possible. And it's good that your boyfriend told you about it.

I would be more then upset. I would be ending the friendship. She wasn't testing him she was trying to steal him away. You have yourself a fine man. I hear alot of women complain about how a good man is hard to find. Better hold on tight to yours looks like someone wants to steal him away.

You are not wrong for being upset. Your friend was wrong for what she did. She just made up a quick lie so that she would feel better about what she did. Obviously she can't be trusted. Keep her away from your man because it seems like you have a good one.

I think she is just trying to make an excuse for her behaviour. I do not belive that this was a test at all - if it was she would have told u about it before, and not after when beeing asked about it. I am glad that ur bf told u though, this way you know that he can be trusted even among your friends... I think u need to have a huge talk with this "friend" of yours.

No if she was testing him she would have told you before. I would ditch this "friend".

i think that your friend definitely tried to hit on your guy and is covering her tracks by telling you that she was testing your boyfriend.you need to keep your distance from her because it is even at times easy to trust your enemy but you can never trust a person eho stabs yu in the back and tries to betray you.take care.

Sweetie, she is lying to you. She wasn't tetsting his faithfulness to you. SHe was making a pass at him to get him for herself. You should ralize this and get her out of your life.

If that was me I would not be happy...not at all. I would however be thankful, not to my friend but rather my boyfriend. Obviously he is trust worthy. It must have been hard for him to tell you your friend made a pass at him. While it was probably a stroke to his ego, he is commited to you and only you. The friend on the other hand can't be trusted. She only tried to turn things around so you wouldn't be mad. You should be mad...rule #1 in friendship is "share everything EXCEPT a man". Hopefully she will learn some morals from your boyfriend.

No, you are not wrong at all. I would be upset as well. Hell, I've been in the situation where my "best friend" made passes at my boyfriend and I was mad as hell when I found out. She had no excuse for it except she said, "I was being stupid, I don't know what I was thinking." Mind you, she was also engaged to the guy who is now my boyfriend. Long story. But yes, definitely tell her you don't appreciate that kind of behavior from her. It wasn't asked for, it wasn't called for, and it will NOT be tolerated in the future. Kudos to your boyfriend for telling you though. To me, that shows he is trustworthy.

What is there to get upset about this matter. Your boyfriend seems to be honest man, otherwise he would have told you about this incident. The girl who made pass on your BF seems to be very jealous of you. Try to keep her away and also cut your friendship with her. Tell her that you no longer interested to keep friendship with her and also tell her that she is mentally degenerated woman. If you utter such words that would keep her away from your BF.

No, you should not be thankful....you should be furious!! I am very glad that you and your boyfriend have the type of relationship where he told you about this....first, she had absolutely no interest in seeing if you could trust him...and instead has proved that you can not trust HER....in my opinion.

With a friend like this you had better guard anything valuable to you, including the boyfriend. She really did it to try to prove to herself whether or not she was more "desirable" than you, or maybe because she is jealous that you have such a good relationship and she wanted to spoil it. Keep your distance.

Yeah its normal to be upset, your boyfriend cheated on you as well as your friend..i think its just an alibi from your friend..just be thankful that at this early you know what kind of boyfriend youve got including your friend..no friends will sacrifice himself to that extent i guess if it is really true then she is a rare kind of a friend i guess.

Yeah i think she's just getting an excuse.......well all well if you trust your bf and he trusts you i mean if love exists then all is fine.........just dont worry, but just tell her straightly that you really dont want her help from now onwards any time in matters between you and your bf

You are not wrong for being upset!! She sounds shady and it sounds like she just made that excuse up b/c she got caught!! how good of friends are with this chick?? Do you trust where she is coming from or is she a snake in the grass? You can make your own decisions so I assume that if you had an issue with YOUR boyfriend, then you would try to handle it with him!! Good luck, hope everything works out-

Sometimes the person you thought you could trust forver is the same person who's gonna hurt you in the end... Maybe she likes your bf and was trying to ruin the relationship that you have with him... You should not be thankful for that, the thing is,,, the relationship is just between you and your bf. She's not included...Being upset with this is just normal... cheer up girl... ^_^

Obviously not... Do u noe that some girls as are evil and do u know that some people just like to break up happy couples? I do noe of such people... Because it happened to me before too... My so called friend... Wanted to seduce my boyfriend... How silly can this sounds? I mean its like in some drama, but for the very fact, its true... It was saddening... Someone u thought was a friend was actually a foe... Which makes me realised... Dun trust people that easily... U never noe who's the one who will betray u... For me, i love my bf and im glad he remain faithful to me... =)