Before I was a mom
By makingpots
@makingpots (11915)
United States
May 9, 2007 10:04am CST
I received this in an email. I think it says it all. I want to share it with all the other wonderfull moms here on myLot.
Before I was a Mom
I never tripped over toys or forgot words to a lullaby.
I didn't worry whether or not my plants were poisonous.
I never thought about immunizations.
Before I was a Mom-I had never been:
Puked on.
Pooped on.
Chewed on.
Peed on.
I had complete control of my mind and my thoughts.
I slept all night.
Before I was a Mom
I never held down a screaming child so doctors could do tests.
Or give shots.
I never looked into teary eyes and cried.
I never got gloriously happy over a simple grin.
I never sat up late hours at night watching a baby sleep.
Before I was a Mom
I never held a sleeping baby just because I didn't want to
put them down.
I never felt my heart break into a million pieces when I couldn't stop the hurt.
I never knew that something so small could affect my life so much.
I never knew that I could love someone so much.
I never knew I would love being a Mom.
Before I was a Mom -
I didn't know the feeling of having my heart outside my body.
I didn't know how special it could feel to feed a hungry baby.
I didn't know that bond between a mother and her child.
I didn't know that something so small could make me feel so
important and happy.
Before I was a Mom -
I had never gotten up in the middle of the night every 10 minutes to make sure all was okay.
I had never known the warmth, the joy, the love, the heartache, the wonderment or the satisfaction of being a Mom.
I didn't know I was capable of feeling so much, before I was a Mom.
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@mummymo (23706)
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9 May 07
mp honey that was so beautiful and so true - you also posted at just the right time as my kids have just come home from school and the little one found a harmonica in her room and has been 'playing' it non stop for the last 20 minutes and the big one has been complaining about a teacher he doesn't like and a surprise test he had to take and just as I was about to lose it I read this post and was transported back in time - reminded of how lucky and blessed I am to have my two angels with me - no matter how annoying they can be! Thanky you my friend for reminding me how much of a miracle my two are anh how thankful I am to have them!
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@makingpots (11915)
• United States
9 May 07
Lol. Glad I could help.
Makes you just want to give them a great big hug doesn't it?
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@maiax2k6 (535)
• Philippines
10 May 07
before i was a mom
i was the eldest daughter
with 5 screaming siblings of descending ages.
so i tripped over toys
sang lullabies, pushed hammocks, made milk formula, puked on, pooped on, peed on, changed diapers,
washed dirty diapers, carried infants in my arms,
watched over them, cared for them, played with them.
before i was a mom,
i already stared at child's grin, wondered at their speedy growths, enjoyed their giggles, tickled them, laughed with them
challenged them, competed for attention with them, fought with them, cried with them
but i also cried for them, proud for them, proud of them
i had apprenticed as a mom long before i became one.
25 years later i finally became a regular
and went through the same motion and more that is unexpected - like the other designations that goes
with any other jobs.
before i was a mom,i never knew
what it meant when they say that
the only time you can ever repay your MOTHER
for everything SHE had ever went through having you
is by becoming one - and having children of your own
before i was a mom, i thought
that everything was just a breeze
because my MOTHER did them all with finesse - the chores, the attending, the caring,
not to mention the teaching, disciplining, the coaching
simultaneously a nurse, a doctor, a referee, a fireman a hairdresser, a dressmaker, a manager, a friend
my own MOTHER played and displayed it so well
SHE was full of life, SHE had laughter,
SHE had music, SHE had tears
now, i deeply regret
that before i was a mom
i never appreciated it that much
never thanked her enough
nor fully expressed my gratitude
even with the times i felt it so.
before i was a mom, i was busy growing up,
getting a life, catching on life
building hopes, chasing dreams
not realizing that what you aspire for, is what SHE is actually supporting whatever it is
that makes you happy and succesful
before i was a mom, I got married
without really trying.
and now remembering everything that my MAMA did,
i realize
that no amount of practice
ever prepared me for the huge
mothering occupation.
yes, i had an idea, but shame, i had no idea
that it would be full time, all the time
all the love, all the care
all the pride, all the happiness
all the pains, all the heartaches
with zero salary and zero investment
but the joys it brings by your own giving self.
Now that i am a mom of three, i know.
though I am still trying to surpass
what my MAMA does so excellently
for the longest time.
i am now thanking my mother - for what i saw
and heard, and learned from her
i thank her for the joys
and the laughter, the stories, the songs
the dances enriching our lives.
i profusely thank her for her heartaches
her pains, and the sacrifices SHE had endured
i thank her for her whole life -
the only one SHE selflessly shared with our family
bringing us up closely as one.
SHE and PAPA had been the best of all people,
doing a job well-done!
and for whatever reason SHE was assigned
to us as a mother
and 'Anma' to her grandchildren,
i could only thank deeply
my good Lord for being the most kind.
now that i am a mom myself,
but knowing that i still need
the kind of love and affection
that only SHE can fill...
and if given the choice to have a mother
in the next life,
it would still be YOU, MAMA
that i will fervently ask and pray for.
For the Most Beautiful, Wonderful, MAMA in the world, I LOVE YOU 'MA. HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!!!
@tiffthone (193)
• United States
9 May 07
I love this poem, its cute and so true!
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