I quit
By dopey22girl
@dopey22girl (3319)
United States
May 9, 2007 2:33pm CST
Basically I'm done with mylot....I had like 6 discussions deleted today; discussions that had a lot of responses as well! And the main reason I'm done is because of all the immature people here. People insulting others for no reason, not being able to say anything without someone yelling at you. Come on everyone, grow up. I have much better things to do with my time than be harrassed by a bunch of grown people who act like 5 year olds, and watch other's be harrassed. I made a post about this earlier...but it got deleted. Go figure. For those of you members who actually act their age..I'll miss you. Thanks for the advice you gave me.
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22 responses
@sojournseeker (1244)
• United States
9 May 07
I am sorry to hear your frustrations aired about myLot, but somene has to as the amount of stuff being deleted, quality or otherwise, can be frazzling to even the calmest of nerves. Don't give up though. Give them the best subject topics and have a really truly educational thing going on here, thats what myLot is after. Think about all the people (students for now) just requiring input on current topics and can't trust a chat site or YIM . . .
myLot delivers, or should, high quality valuable, reliable, authentic personally disclosed information that can be useful to a mass consciousness. They don't appreciate flim-flam or puff pieces, as which some of my posts were classified as. Hey, I am a professional writer and accept constructive criticism, even in the form of post deletion, BUT I do not give up. Everyone has an opinion and an . . . well you know.
Hope to continue seeing your gusto written out there girl ! Go get 'em !
sharing the light,
Erica
Welcome to my world below:
http://www.enlightenment-psych.net
@PsychoDude (2013)
• Netherlands
9 May 07
Going and ranting about it along with feeling the need to notify in public you are leaving... not that much of the 18 year old behavior I must say ;), you could have handled it with a bit more tact I must say since now you're pretty much lowering yourself to the reason why you claim to be leaving.
Anyways, have fun in life ^_^, never got to know you but still, have fun :P.
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@inked4life (4224)
• United States
9 May 07
I agree that there are a lot of people here who like to stir things up and complain a lot. It gets to you at times but the best thing to do is just take a couple of days off and come back refreshed. I have a list of people whose discussions I avoid like the plague and if anyone comes into my discussions with negativity or some hateful remark I just give them a negative rating. If good members like yourself quit then these negative few will have won and Mylot will be reduced to a whining, hateful place to visit...the good people have to step up and keep this place classy...hope you reconsider.
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@dopey22girl (3319)
• United States
9 May 07
Maybe after a while..but I don't know. I doubt it. I was on here for 3 hours last night and made like $1.30. Not too exciting. And why should I have to put up with people with these sad little lives who have nothing better to do than internet fight? It's really just pathetic. Thanks for not being one of them.
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@royal52gens (5488)
• United States
9 May 07
Stand strong, stay strong and ignore those people who have upset you. Maybe take a day to relax and then re-approach the situation. If you still choose to leave, I will miss you.
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@howard96h (11640)
• New York, New York
9 May 07
Hi my friend, I hope you change your mind and stay. This is exactly what those people want you to do and because of that you should not quit. Take a breather and rethink it over.
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@dopey22girl (3319)
• United States
9 May 07
I actually did change my mind. Why quit over such immaturity?
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@smacksman (6053)
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10 May 07
Yay, way to go girl. Give it to them right between the eyes!!
What amazes me is I never seem to see these vibrant posts of yours that get banned. Sounds really exciting. haha
@AnoChaudhary (1719)
• India
9 May 07
hello i have not replied to you before but its sad you are leaving this way...come on think about it again please...and if people are harrasing - which they should not be doing in the first place - just ignore them....thats no reason for you to leave...think again...maybe like someone suggested take a break n come back again...hope to see you around :)
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@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
10 May 07
I do not know you and I do not think that i have ever seen a post of yours, However I do not think that u should let other people drive u away from here. There will be good and bad people wherever you are, and the best thing u can do is show that they can not get to you, and that u are stronger than them =)
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@stailgate (2363)
• United States
9 May 07
I have been off for a little while, but sence I have been back I have seen this a couple of times. Things must have changed in the last month of so sence I have been off. Too bad. Mylot is fun.
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@recycledgoth (9894)
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10 May 07
Sorry to hear that hun, I responded to some of your posts and wondered why I had lost points today, now I know. Don't let this drive you away, try to rise above it hun
@CarlyLaine (759)
• United States
10 May 07
I've had posts deleted and I didn't think of quitting.
It's all for the ENTERTAINMENT... : )
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@gangus2 (373)
• United States
10 May 07
Hey dopey
Don't give up. I have only been here about a month. I have not gotten any negative, but in the time I have been here I have gotten loads of information. Some people only know how to insult, don't take it personally, its just what they do. I think that this is a great place to come, despite the insulters'. I guess they have to have somewhere to go and be heard. You mentioned deleted posts, Who's doing that? Shame on them. Your friends' want you to stay, don't let those ugly insulters' chase you away.
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@xiqechill (238)
• Indonesia
9 May 07
hm, i'm really curious what is the topic of the discussion was being deleted. if it is possible, please tell me, maybe i can help you find the answer, eventhough i'm new here too.
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@micaella (396)
• Philippines
10 May 07
Hi girl,
Its my 2nd day here at mylot and as what i heared from you now --- makes me feel worried and looks like I want to quit --- although I really dont know what was that really exactly is...
But then dont handle it seriously esp. the bad feedback uve got, Its not a big deal then, its not a big question anymore if you or we encountered immatured people, its just they're all over the world, so SMILE think & do what u believe is right.
GO Girl!!!
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@wahmoftwo (1296)
• United States
10 May 07
Sorry to see you go. Best wishes to you :)
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@pinklilly (3443)
• Australia
10 May 07
I'm sorry to hear about your discussions being Deleted....I hope that some members here we're helpful and Nice towards you. I will miss you too...
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@MrNiceGuy (4141)
• United States
9 May 07
6 discussions deleted in one day doesn't sound like it's someone else's fault...
@dopey22girl (3319)
• United States
9 May 07
Actually I wasn't relating those two things together. You would have realized that had you read the discussion more carefully.
@dbeast (1495)
• India
9 May 07
quitting for such a silly reason?why cant you just ignore them.there will be people who never grow up and cant be without cussing and complaining about certain things.when we try and fight them out they get the attention required and they have achieved what they have been trying to do.ignore them blindly and they ll automatically go away.
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
10 May 07
I almost quit my first month in mylot because mylot deleted 4 responses or so and took $ 1 off my account which means 100 posts instead of 4. Then other mylotter referred me to another site and so for a few weeks I joined both. Unfortunately this other site was a scam and now everbody knows it, whereas mylot increased my earnings and then paid me on time.
My earnings were down for 2 days this week then yesterday it was up 3 times and today back to normal, not less not more. I don't know what happened and why, but I know that if you quit over hardship, you will quit forever - which is bad since although we can not win all the time, we're also not supposed to give up without a fight. This applies to any areas in our life, not only mylot.
Keep posting quality topics and responses, you'll see!
@onabreak2 (1161)
• United States
10 May 07
Dopey don't quit because someone is arguing with you. There are certain people on here that do that on pupose to get a rise out of you. Just ignore them. They are idiots. If you say something is white they will say it is black. So just don't pay bit of attention to them. Pretty soon if no one pays attention to them they will go away. They probably have no life away from here and this is their main entertainment. Just try to pity them.