How often do you get into arguments or fights with your other??

United States
May 9, 2007 5:22pm CST
I seem to get into a little confusion or disagreement with my girl like 2 a week and I dont think thats good. Is it normal or is that just very unhealthy? I've only been commited to about 3 or 4 serious relationships and evry one is different but what do you think? Any input will help...Thanx
7 responses
@YoungInLove (1254)
• Canada
10 May 07
Me and my boyfriend tend to fight alot. Not about huge things, just, Im a sensitive person, and he likes to joke to much tot he point where he hurts my feelings. We dont see it as a bad thing. Of course, if you arent happy and fight all the time you shouldnt be in that relatinship. But if you love her and you just have stupid arguments, think of it as "its not whether you fight its whether your relatinship is always strong enough to make up" thats how we see it and it works out for us. As long as you can are committed and love eachother enough to work things out, then its not much of a problem.
• United States
11 May 07
It kinda sounds like our relationship. I do joke aroud alot and when I'm just playin about a situation she may think I'm serious and get a little snippy somtime. But I do love her and I know she loves me and we always work it out. We dont fight all the time but I think more than I have with any other girl this far in the relationship. But it is over really stupid things a lot.
• United States
9 May 07
I feel having only three years and three days between my boyfriend and I the compatibility factor is tested far more daily, we are very much alike. Equally stubborn, lazy if given the chance (and one of us cannot be as lazy or lazier than the other)and demanding of the same level of attention giving that is being dished out. We argue alot because I find reason to dispute some of the things he finds absolutely fine to do or say--I am the female cancerian he is the male, a mirror facing itself. Sometimes scary, mostly annoying, usually petty that honest communication and sincerity in the delivery of that long-awaited for apology usually works out and we are best buds again !
• United States
11 May 07
yeah we have alot in common, but she wants to settle evrything right on the spot, which I kinda like (after the dispute) cause I tend to let it go and it may come out in another way but we will make up quick and be back to I love you sorry I love you sorry qiuck. But yeah friendship is the key I think to our relationship. thanx
@lamiaa (581)
• Egypt
11 May 07
argue for two weeks only , maybe there is something upset her , try to be understanding , argue well not bring u any good , i think the best thing is to deal with this with peace , it bring the best results.
• Nigeria
10 May 07
well i rarely get into an arguement with my girlfriend unnecessarily but should the case arise we deal with it instead of one side holding it down on the other. I believe there's nothing wrong in having disagreement since the 2 of you are human and have different approach about certain issues. Its also a way to get to learn your partners opinion though it should be avoided if there's an opportunity too. Anyway its not unhealthy but could rather be of help to you in the near future as you must have known what she likes or what she doesnt like through her reaction to certain issues
@magica (3707)
• Bulgaria
9 May 07
Well...that`s the problem that i am a debating person who likes to discuss, to argue and this for me is a way to share some ideas. My partner is a peacefull...may be too peacefull nature who treats all the arguments and even debates as scandals. What makes me angry indeed!
• United States
11 May 07
yeah its not like debate I can go along with that, I mean somtimes she may mis understand what I'm saying or vice versa and it turns into one of us not being so happy with each other. evry situation is different so its hard to put it all in words but thanx for the response
• China
10 May 07
I often have this situation,but we are like each other more~~
@amy0214 (1513)
• United States
10 May 07
we very rarely fight