whose fault is it?

It's not your fault. You've done nothing wrong. You're just being honest with your feelings. Your boyfriend should be glad for your honesty and being open with what you feel. Regarding the text messages issue, your boyfriend has just prove to you that he doesn't trust you and maybe he just can't accept the fact that you somewhat admire his friend. Don't be guilty. It's just natural to admire someone other than your boyfriend or girlfriend. Your boyfriend should also accept that fact.

At least you were honest with your boyfriend about this, but I think he did a mean thing to you. He probably did it to see if you would actually cheat, or if he could catch you in the act. You did nothing wrong, he did.

I'm sorry your bf betrayed your trust. I know it hurts. You were being truthful and honest in letting your bf know about your crushes and he should not have tested you by asking his friend to text you those messages. It's really pointless and an immature thing to do. I would suggest that you have a good discussion with your bf and let him know that you are hurting because of this and to clear up any misunderstandings.

It's too bad.You did right You were sincere with your boy friend that is why you told him about all this thing and good thing is you didn't hide anything from him.But what he did to just check you is wrong totally wrong he shouldn't have done this.Its mean he doesn't trust you and i think without a trust no relationship can stand longer he should be broad minded and have trust on you as You are his lover not an ordinary person.You can like so many peoples it doesn't mean you are going to fall in love with them.What ever he did was wrong and You should discuss about it to him if trust you anymore or not!!