tell me will you go against parents in any condition...as with me..hmm...!!!!!!
By amit_shehwag
@amit_shehwag (836)
India
May 10, 2007 5:27am CST
now if i have to marry with my girlfriend..i have to go against my parents...as they are not ready for this..and i am not permitted...its a critical situation for me...and i am not able to decide whether i should go against my parents or not....its really tough because i love my parents so much...and anything without their permission ,i am fearing i will be happy anytime...it is really difficult...what do you think about this friends...whether i should go against or not....????
4 responses
@fazelath (1174)
• India
10 May 07
before taking a drastic step i would think 100 times,no one is sure for how long a relationship will work,u will get many girlfriends in life and u can fall in love too,but u wont get your parents,your parents will think of your welfare only,i dont think u should hurt your parents,i am not married,if i was in your place i would not go against my parents,one wrong choice can spoil whole life
@amit_shehwag (836)
• India
10 May 07
i am totally agree with you my dear friend...and thanks for supporting me....and for your valuable response...
@damsel_prerna (863)
• India
10 May 07
y dont u just sit with your parents and explain them that you really cannot live without this girl.. and by marrying anyone else would only ruin 3 lives.. i am sure they will understand.. tell them u will not be happy if you get married to sumone elze..
@amit_shehwag (836)
• India
10 May 07
lastly i will do the same thing...dear...anyways thanks for responsing and for your valuable suggestion....
@maddog108 (3435)
• Australia
10 May 07
its good to have your parents support but it is your life you need to make it on your own make your own decisssions be them good or bad they wont like it by the sounds of it but they will just have to get used to it
@amit_shehwag (836)
• India
10 May 07
i am agree with you my friend...and i will follow the same way....
@carlissa32 (64)
• United States
10 May 07
For a man leaves his father and mother to become one with the wife of his youth. You love your parents this I know but your parents dont sleep with you and your parents CANNOT fulfill that one thing that your future wife can.... Romantic love and intimacy. You love her Marry her. Your parents may not like it but because they love you they have to respect your decision.
