Let's talk: Love & Marriage

Love & Marriage - Are you married?
@Hydale (206)
China
May 11, 2007 1:24am CST
Since long time age,I couldn't make a clear cognition about love and marriage, I just think that love is the way to marriage. Love is just a process,marriage is the terminal. Like others always saying that "Love is blind but marriage is an eye-opener", when you are not able to see, you could immerse yourself in romance and at this moment, love is all you need, while when you open the eyes, you suddenly feel the love is not only the kind of beautiful feeling, it stands also for responsibility and commitments. And even worse, these reponsibility are not only for you two,it extends to parents, relatives,friends,of course,the last but most important point, your chil.Then,love is one long sweet dream,and marriage is the alarm clock. Are you married? Or prepared for marriage? What are your attitude for marriage??
2 responses
@lovesu (142)
• China
11 May 07
people in love are eyeless,and marriage would make him sober up.
@Hydale (206)
• China
11 May 07
Please keep in mind,the marriage is the serious and important thing of our life.
@lillake (1630)
• United States
11 May 07
I'm not married, and I probably won't ever be married. I think that if a couple is truely committed to each other then the ceremony and the rings and the piece of paper won't really matter. But the opposite is also true. If a coupleare not committed to each other then getting married will not guarentee that they will be happy or stay together.
@Hydale (206)
• China
11 May 07
Yes,that's the truth. I am also not married, a couple must trust each other,move forward for the same aim and keep the family warmly,that's marriage what I want. I won't married until I find a girlfriend who will became my wife,of course,I may be spent one year,maybe forever.