Will you still be faithful?

I look at this question as a married woman with 2 kids. If my husband betray me and be unfaithful, i will let him go for sure. I have said that to him also. If he feels that i am not up to his intentions, he can happily find another one. But, for sure, i will not try to find another one in this life. I have my kids and i will look after them the best i can. Thats enough for me.

This is a very difficult question to answer, and a no less difficult problem to face. The basis of most relationships has to be trust. When the trust is gone from betrayal or unfaithfulness, it is something that is very hard to recover from. Once that trust is lost, it is a long and slow process of building it again and by no means a simple task, for some it's not even possible. Many people will go right out and be unfaithful in retaliation, trying to hurt the other person as they have been hurt. Others wouldn't even consider it, because they are just not wired to do that or they want to keep the higher "moral" ground. I have seen others repair relationships where betrayal and unfaithfulness were involved, but personally I have never been able to continue in one myself.

if my girlfriend became unfaithful , i would certainly asked to be excused but if she is my wife , i have to understand her and fight for her to be by my side. we have to work it out and see it would not happen again.

being faithful or unfaithful to your husband or wife is a personal matter depending on the circumstances of the "deceiver" & the "deceived". Before any irrational decisions, I suggest to understand first the circumstances, to answer the question of what, why & how. Personally, I think that all marriages go thru this stage, whether at the beginning of the marriage, or after 10 years, even 20 years of being married. The stages is like a ladder that every obstacles should be faced by both parties, that if both can hurdle the situation, one goes to the next level of happiness. Therefore, one should weigh things. Both parties are involved, both parties are responsible for the situation so therefore if the "deceived" would still accept the husband/wife, both parties should be involved in the healing process. What Causes Affairs? There are many factors involved -The idea of "I have a right to be happy!" -Relaxed Divorce Law -Change in Life-Course Attitudes -Dual Career Families -Increase Longevity -Unresolved marital problems -Unrealistic Expectations -Monogamy Myth -Myths about Remaining "In Love" -Personal Issus -Insecurities of both the Deceiver & the Deceived What Might it Take for the Primary Relationship to Survive? -Do not Make any Quick Decisions -Working through Confusion -Mutual Responsibility -Re-Establishing Trust -Managing Anger -Therapy/ Seek Help/Mediation -Willingness to Reflect and be Introspective -Support System

If a person as betrayed and unfaithful,then he would not exist in my life,

no i wont..

I don't believe in cheating and I think it's sad that people will stoop as low as their partner and cheat too. It's sad and pathetic. You shouldn't lower your standards and your ethics especially when you haven't done anything wrong. You have morals, so stick by them. I won't cheat, I just refuse to do it because why does it really prove?

i will be still faithful,, those things happened to us is past for me, as long as can change and promise me to me that he will never do it again, i give him a second chance and if still betrayed or he still cheat me,, i better stop the relationship..