why doesn't she respond to me?

One thing is sure that there is a problem from her family. She might be from a orthodox family, where there are restrictions of keeping in touch with a male friend. But i think the love is one-sided only, that is from your side. She may like you, but not love you. Her feelings for you is not so strong like yours. If her feelings were strong then she could have come out from the line of orthodoxity and could have resonded to you. But thats not the case. Now the best thing is to make her pine for you. What you have to do is keep silent(If you really love her). Try to ignore her fully. Gossip and chat with other female frieds and make her feel jelaous. Then only she will understand the true meaning of you. Always remember that "If she comes back then she is yours, if not then she was never yours." Life keeps going and time is great healer. So be brave and face the world.

Maybe there are things that blocks her from meeting you during the holidays. Did it ever cross into your mind that maybe she has a boyfriend in their town?hehe..I hope not. But I just can't figure out why she's avoiding you during the holdays. Or maybe the two of you are not yet that close to let you come over to thier hometown. But why, even a phonecall isn't possible?..I think better ask her the real score so that you won't be left hanging and hoping. Goodluck manish!

I think she likes u only as a friend and nothing more than that,why dont u talk to her and make it clear

maybe she's just shy? or scared to get close to u...does she know how u feel? maybe u should try to tell her, who knows she might feel the same way too but just waiting for u to make the first move hehe..anyway good luck ;)