I Decided to Refuse The Guy !!! Am I Wrong ?

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This is the incident of a few weeks ago, here I just want to know what do you think about it? The marriage proposal came through one of my relatives. In our culture mariages are usually arrenged by guardians. My guardians told me that the guy works in a multinational company, he has his parents and one elder brother, but the guy works in another state staying away from home. After the proposal, a date has been fixed for us to meet. It was decided that the boy will come with his mother to meet me. As per the arrengement I went with my father and a relative to a restaurant in that particular date in the evening to meet them. But, the guy came alone and told us that suddenly his mother got sick, so he came alone to meet me. I and that boy sit in a room to talk with each other. The guy was very smart and handsome. He also has the capacity to speak well. We started talking and talked for a long time in several topics. Suddenly the guy initiate the topic of affiars. He first asked me about my affairs, and I told him that I had no such affairs. Then He started his story.... He said he had a very long affairs with a girl from his schoold days (for 9 years), before a few months, she went away leaving him. He said "I was very shocked at first and decided not to trust the whole women class ever." He also told me that after that incident, he was very very upset and depressed for 3 days. After that he decided to remove the girl from his mind and seriously concentrated on studies and as a result of that incident,he is working in a reputed post now. Then he said now, he has decided to marry to fulfil his mother's desire and to please his mother and he has not a least desire to see the girl he is going to marry. The boy said he is ready to marry any girl if his mother approves her and he will marry her without meeting of seeing before marriage. He said that he decided not to see me before marriage, but his mother told my mother that he will come to meet me, so he is here, just to keep his mother's words and prestige, otherwise he would not meet me. In our whole 3 hours discussion, he repeated that he is here with me is purely for keeping his mother's words, otherwise he decided not to meet the girl he would marry. He told these to me at least three times in our whole discussion. Now friends, do you think it is normal for a smart and handsome guy to marry a girl without the least desire to see her before marriage ? It seemed to me that he still remembers his old love and not mentally ready to accept a new relationship, so he is not interested to meet his life partner before marriage. He also said that he is very busy with his job and he stayed outside home, in 20-25 days per month for officeial duties, so I have to leave alone at that time.. He told me that he has a lots of friends. He used to pass a long time with his friends, and he is not ready to reduce the time he passes with friedns for his new life partner. After reading this discussion, what you think my myLot friends, is it right for me to choose that person as my life partner ? I want your honest responses. I just want to know your thought and views. If anyone thinks I am worng, please write me, I am waiting to hear from you. If any one of you thinks I am right, then also support me by writing !