Adult tattletales....how to deal with them?

In my life, I have come across with people like that. Sometimes people tend to feel good when they talk about themselves or they do not realize what they are doing is really irritating. The way to deal with these type of people is just listen and dont give them any opportunity to start talking to you.

Just smile and let it go over your head. Do your work to the best of your ability and better her. That's a sure fire way to stop her boasting. When she finds you're humouring her, and perhaps not even impressed with her boasts, she'll very probably move on to some other poor, unsuspecting person. I know these people are very difficult to live with and you just want a peaceful working life. So, if it gets too bad, then go tattletale back on here. Ask your boss if you can be moved to a different area because you can't work with her prattling on all day long. I'm sure he's aware of her faults, and will sympathise with your sentiments and give you a change of scenery and close work colleagues. Good luck with this and Brightest Blessings.

Oh dear, that is awful and stressful. Not much you can do to change her. Just be thankful that you are not like her, and you do not have to go home to someone like that. Bless you sugar.

Well I would ignore her and I mean ignore Sweetie I have come across People like that and found I was stressing myself out to much but getting worked up over it so I started ignoring and got on with my Job and it worked So just don't listen to her and of course do not give her the Attention Hope it sorts out

Being the humurous type that I am I would probably start some silly rumor myself just to get this other nosy type going bigtime. Either that or I would start saying things about her that way she'd get a hint. But these types usually don't care one iota what others think about their ways and antics. Most are known as what we call "brown nosers". Sticking their nose up the bosses keister trying to impress them this way. They seem to wish to know everything also. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~

I used to work with someone like that and she drove everyone batty. We eventually got fed up and starting letting things 'slip' to her that were ridicoulously untrue, she would go and tattle and ended up looking like an idiot. That was years ago, but I know even after we did that, she didn't change.

My Dad always used to say, if you give a fool enough rope they will hang them selves. It looks like she already might be. Eventually the boss will have enough and will get ride of her. Just ignore her do your best, I think I might be tempted to give her a crazy story to take back to the boss, in the end she will look like a fool. So grit your teeth and hang on for the ride, until she falls off the horse lol. I know it is hard though I work with a male version of her. But he has started to look like a fool now. So it will happen with her to. Good luck.

I don't know how to deal with people like this, I find them very annoying because they ruin otherwise pleasant situations. I mostly just try to ignore them. I guess maybe you could all gang up on her - have an intervention and tell her that her constant reporting is making it difficult to work with her. Maybe she just has no idea how to be happy in a normal way, or how to interact with people.

I have found that those who "tattle" on other are usually doing it because their work is faulty somehow and the only way they can try to keep themselves in good standing is to "rat out" others, whether it's true or not. I usually just ignore it and do my work as best as I can. Sooner or later, they will inciminate themselves. We've had a couple around here. One finally left about a month ago. She ratted on every little thing about people and the bosses couldn't stand her because they knew what she was ratting about was so petty. At the same time - she wasn't doing her work! It took a long time, but they finally had enough and made life difficult for her so she quit. There's more of a problem if they are listening to what she says. If someone is tattling and they are listening, then your problem is with management. But someone who is like this just because that's the way they are will be found out soon enough.

Jusy keep your self away from her!!

except discussion with the dailylife to post,not other things can be discussing,but i hate to discussion this tattletale post,it is just to tell us what she or he emotion bad or good,and most of subject is a women'topic.as a man,i cann't respond for this.so i hope we should change this single subject.

hvnt came across one ..once i come acrss that i can answer yr question