Shall I remove my videos on youtube?

@yanjiaren (9031)
May 11, 2007 6:55am CST
I am getting cussed now by the Chinese on youtube, that I can't sing etc..and I sing everything wrong and they are down rating me..I am thinking of removing all my videos and not bothering any more. The less exposure, the less I will be ridiculed, my singing days I feel are over now. It was different when I was professional 15 odd years ago. What do you think?
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@mugzy528 (800)
• United States
11 May 07
They are Only a few people Don't let them Bother you just ignore it they will give up. And don't put yourself down about it hold your Head up high and the He** with them. Have a Great Day.
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@yanjiaren (9031)
11 May 07
Thank you for your kindness
@yanstill (1490)
• China
11 May 07
what?no.you know no matter what you sing,i will always support you.but,one thing is,i still don't know where you put your video,i haven't a chance to see it and enjoy it...i know you will give me that chance,don't remove it.can you give me your link?coz i am not familiar with youtube,i've just heard about it before and my friends give me some interesting links on youtube.don't lose faith,you have me.
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@yanjiaren (9031)
11 May 07
Thank you so much for the ding..and on youtube.you made my day..
@yanstill (1490)
• China
11 May 07
sorry i respond to your topic directly from my mail and i didn't see your reply on the first floor,i'll go for it.
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@yanstill (1490)
• China
11 May 07
you've done a good job,i can see it.:)
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@lucalucky (1839)
• Italy
12 May 07
I am not an expert of singer and absolutely not an expert of chinese but if I remember well your video was absolutely good. You don't have to feel you ridiculed by the rating and leave your video there. This, obviously, is only my opinion. If you think rating is important on Youtube remove the video.
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@yanjiaren (9031)
12 May 07
Thank you for your valid thoughts my friend.
@Anniedup (3651)
• Richards Bay, South Africa
11 May 07
If it upsets you, or hurt your feelings, then you should consider taking them down my friend. It's just not worth it to feel miserable over something that gave you and us so much pleasure.
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@yanjiaren (9031)
11 May 07
Thank you my friend for your kindness..
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@charms88 (7538)
• Philippines
11 May 07
I understand what you are feeling, Yan. Like what I went through yesterday, an old woman attacked and ridiculed me on one of my discussion. I felt so bad that I posted another discussion announcing that I'm not going to post anymore thread. But the warm responses I received help me realized that I should still go on and not be afraid to show my true passion. Do you understand what I'm saying, Yan. There are still a lot of people who will show their support to you. Why not put your you tube in your own private blog and let your supporters viewed it privately. I have a site that I can recommend to you. I'm sharing some songs with a close friend. You know who I'm referring to. He will upload some Chinese songs for me to hear. PM me if you are interested. remember Yan, no matter how you sing, a true friend will not ridiculed you. Why...I can't even sing properly.
@yanjiaren (9031)
11 May 07
Thanks so my my friend..and please never give up posting..where is the nerd that ridiculed you? I missed it I think..so busy running around the last few days, my legs are aching..
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@charms88 (7538)
• Philippines
11 May 07
Nothing for you to worry now, Yan. I'm in control of my faculties once again. For a while, I thought I'm going to hop in and beat that old woman to pulp, LOL!
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@jimbomuso (950)
11 May 07
I'd suggest to keep on going, people will always the pi## for various reasons( jealousy/trying to intimidate opposition) but the skills you've gained in those 15 years should not be wasted. You will know when is the right time to 'quit' but I don't think that time is now.
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@yanjiaren (9031)
11 May 07
Thank you but I feel a bit down..
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
11 May 07
They are only suffering with the same problem I currently have my friend in one word JEALOUSY. They don't have the guts to do it, so what's it got to do with them, until they can sing themselves, video it and put it up for the world to see, then they can go jump. Sorry to be blunt but who cares a damn what they think, your friends, me included enjoyed the videos you made and I know, in fact I absolutely KNOW that you enjoyed doing them and sharing them to your friends. These people who are they exactly? Do they mean squiddly dot? Exactly! Listen to the people that care not stupid people who have nothing better to do than to insult others, they are pathetic. You do what's right to YOU my friend x
@yanjiaren (9031)
11 May 07
You are a fantastic friend Wolfie, I wish I could give more than one best response man!
• Sri Lanka
11 May 07
I watched all three videos, and they were all good. But what a pity I don't understand. It would be nice if subtitles were also there. I didn't see bad comments but there were diverse opinions by diverse people. I think the song in the black suit is about some martial art. I myself am a Karate Black belter. The movements had a resemblance to Kung Fu.
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@yanjiaren (9031)
11 May 07
You are right about the black one..it is a gong fu song, but I am still a slow tai ji learner lol..I sometimes wake up at five in the morning and get up and paractice because I get restless lol.
@aidonia (4209)
• Greece
11 May 07
Nooooooooooooo.Please let your videos as they are.My son loves them at I add one at my favorite video too.Why you care for those that tell you they didn't like your video and you don't care for rest of us that we are YANJIAREN funs?Are they more important than us?Even the better singer will find some people they don't want listen him songs..right? I'm waiting your coming back to your husband for you do more videos....
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@yanjiaren (9031)
11 May 07
Thank you so much Aidonia..btw I need that fishing4mails link again lol..I am so so behind..I will keep the videos on then I think..nase kala mana mu
@tammyr (5946)
• Etowah, Tennessee
11 May 07
Oh please don't do that. Just ignore them. Don't think a thing about what they say, only what your hubby and you think about it. You did it for you and him, not anyone else!
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@yanjiaren (9031)
11 May 07
I also had fun making them with him. It's kind of a love memory I have, especially now we are apart.
11 May 07
Why should you hun, I have seen and heard a great deal worse on there. Don't them the petty minded people get you down, there are plenty of people out there who appreciate you
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@yanjiaren (9031)
11 May 07
Thank you, I am a bit sensitive lol..
@Gmens91 (389)
• Philippines
12 May 07
Oh, Yan, stop listening to them! Let them cuss all they want. Who are they, anyway? Are they professionals that grade you? They are just ordinary people like you and me. As long as it makes you happy and contented, do not let them get to you. It's a normal thing on youtube, believe me.
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@yanjiaren (9031)
12 May 07
Thank you, I got some better comments today lol..
@arkaf61 (10881)
• Canada
12 May 07
Oh yanjiaren don't even pay attention to them. THere are always those who will find fault in everything that it's not for their own "glory". YOu have a wonderful voice and even if I don't understand chinese I love to hear it. Keep doing what you like to do and don't let them bother you. DOn't quit unless you really want to, and not because of them. Hugs
@yanjiaren (9031)
12 May 07
Thanks for your lovely advice..
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@valerfore (298)
• Singapore
11 May 07
I am Chinese and I think its pretty good. Ignore the youtube commenters. If you notice, most of them are immature kids.
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@yanjiaren (9031)
11 May 07
xie xie nin..My husband also is a Zhongguoren he wanted to put me on there, because of my love for Chinese songs.
@deebomb (15304)
• United States
11 May 07
As I'm not familiar with how these songs are supposed to sound I could not be critical. I can only say what I think about them. I enjoyed listening to them. so please remember that you are reaching more than just the Chinese audiences
@yanjiaren (9031)
11 May 07
Thank you for your kind words..
@brendalee (6082)
• United States
12 May 07
I am late again as usual, but I think you should leave them up. I know its hard to ignore those people but you have got to try. You did those videos for your husband and your friends. Nobody elses opinion matters.
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• Singapore
11 May 07
Don't be bothered with them. I am surprised enough that people would bother to leave comments lol. Just pretend they are your fans. ;-)
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@yanjiaren (9031)
11 May 07
That's a funny way to look at it I suppose..