monster-in-law
By lilbadger
@lilbadger (45)
Philippines
May 11, 2007 10:05am CST
my mother-in-law hates me. she'll kill me if given a chance.
what should i do? we don't live with her but she will call every single day to let me know that i ruined her son's life. i don't have a problem with my hubby. he loves me so much. i just can't take it anymore. she's getting into my nerves. what will i do?
3 responses
@Adrenochrome (1653)
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11 May 07
I know that family is held in very high regard within the Philippines, but feel you must talk to your husband about his mothers behaviour. I'm sure that, whilst he thinks a lot of his mother, he would not want her to be having such a destructive and sad effect on you. We can't choose our family, but he did choose you, to spend the rest of his life with.
Tell him how bad things have become.
If you can get 'caller i.d.' on your phone line, then you could ignore her calls.
All the best, and try not to listen to her, she probably wouldn't regard any woman worthy of her son. Some mopthers are just like that.
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@paigegal (438)
• United States
11 May 07
This is really bad bad bad. I wouldn't want this happen to me. Did you tell your husband about this? I think you have to talk to your 'monster-in-law'. Ask her why she thinks like that and ask her what you did to make her feel like that. Try to communicate more with her. Hope this help! Good Luck!
@lilbadger (45)
• Philippines
11 May 07
my hubby's so aware of the situation that is why we're far from her. she tried to ruin our wedding day but she failed. i'm pregnant right now and she' harrassing me to kill the baby.
@rakheeraut15 (47)
• India
12 Nov 07
1st thing is that, the lady who thinks to kill a baby is worst to worst. Tell me 1 thing did u ever say something against her in front of your monster-in-law. Do u have these guts? If u have not started just start from today, give her one dose over phone bcoz she deserves that. Tell your husband very frankly. Ask him how to cope up with this situation and last but not least make one police complaint if necessary or only give her police threat 1st, then if u want u can make complaint. Don't get scared, bcoz if u will not find out solution right now then u can't do anything in future.
