I am really surprised with the reply of a mylotter on my discussion

India
May 11, 2007 12:01pm CST
Hi Friends I am really surprised a member replied on my discussion .. I started a thread about who is giving me negative here --- http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1070330.aspx Please see the reply from this user -- ivanxe .. He says -- about why I am getting negative -- basically, its because of your picture im quite certain in it... try to post a nice one and you'll see.... somethin that catches attetion... only is must not be a vulgar kind... but the question.. wha tis the big deal about your star? Do u think my picture is bad ?? It's two little angels .. is it vulgar ?? Please share it with me .. I don't think it's vulgar .. Really surprise to have this type of reply on my discussion .. he really made me think about this
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23 responses
@stormygrl (761)
• United States
11 May 07
I like your avatar and see nothing wrong with it. It's very cute!Very innocent.
2 people like this
• India
11 May 07
Thanks a lot for sharing your views about my avatar :)
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• India
12 May 07
Thanks a lot Lifez2Short for sharing your views :)
• United States
12 May 07
I agree with Stormygrl your avatare is just fine.
@PsychoDude (2013)
• Netherlands
11 May 07
I don't think he's implying the angels are vulgar, just to post a nicer looking image but not an image which is vulgar. But if people are rating negative because of one's avatar it's simply lame to begin with, for stuff like that happening without a doubt though I care less about the rating system to begin with.
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@Latrivia (2878)
• United States
12 May 07
Touchnshine, did you even see his picture? It was a picture of him flipping the bird - he had no idea what he was talking about, and he had no right to imply that your picture was vulgar. In fact, his picture is the one that was vulgar, and he should probably be reported for it. Regardless, there's nothing vulgar about your picture. Similar pictures adorn the walls and ceilings of the Cistine Chapel and other relgious monuments, and no one has had a problem with it. Seriously, don't let what that kid said get to you. It was a hypocritical thing of him to say, and again, I'd like to stress that you're avatar is not vulgar. It is also not the reason you get negatives. A word of advice, avoid hypocrites...their word is as worthless as the dirt beneath your feet.
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• India
12 May 07
Hello Latrivia Yes I saw his picture .. even I don't think my picture is vulgar and now I really don't care what he say. Thank you so much for your support and advice :)
@asahibza (388)
• Canada
11 May 07
I can see they are two little angels, we will call them. I did not find any problem with that. In fact, they look so cute, innocent and lovely. It is a matter of personal opinion. To me, this picture is not at all vulgar. I think this needs a little explanation. If some one says the picture is vulgar, it might need a little bit more explanation. I feel if we have an opinion about anything, we should come out clearly and with full justification.
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• India
12 May 07
Thanks for sharing your views asahibaza about my avatar :) ..
@federickp (607)
• India
12 May 07
I will tell you whats the matter. The pic of yours is confusing, it is really a good pic - but when seen maximised, when reduced toa scale what it appears as an avatar it looks like two naked people. The wings are not that visible you see. The wings of right side baby are almost hidden! I suggest you to change your pic touchshine. Your pic is nice, but it takes good eyes to see it!
1 person likes this
• India
12 May 07
Hello federickp Thanks a lot for your views :) and thanks for the positive .. evn I rated you positive .. hope u will get an increase in your star as well :)
• India
12 May 07
By the way after learning that you are getting negatives, i have rated you + so many times that tommorrow you will cross 10 and reach upto 11 !!! he he he!
@jerinvar (42)
• India
11 May 07
Its okay yaa ,be cool dont worry,people of different kinds are here some respond positievley while some don`t.
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• India
11 May 07
Yes dear you are right all are different so they have their own point of view :)
@Stiletto (4579)
12 May 07
Nothing wrong with your avatar - it's quite cute. There probably are some people dumb enough to rate someone negatively for their avatar but I can't see why they would do that with yours.
• India
12 May 07
Dear stiletto Thanks for sharing your views here :)
@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
13 May 07
That was simply a childish response from him, and I notice that quite a few members made comments to the same effect about his post. There is obviously nothing wrong with your avatar. If someone did post a crude or vulgar avatar here it would probably get very little attention. A few members may make comments about it but it would not generate negative ratings. A negative rating is normally reserved for a response that has no relevance to the subject or an unreasonably offensive response.
• India
13 May 07
Dear Asylum Thanks for sharing your views.. I truely agree with you :)
@cheenlly (3476)
• Philippines
12 May 07
hmmm if we base how we rate in avatar i think that kid will be getiing a lot of negative rates as i can see his avatar is vulgar compared to you. I dont see anything wrong with your avatar and mostly i dont base the rates on pictures. Mylottian based their rates on how quality of responses they contribute and it has nothing to do with the avatar we put. Perhaps this kid used to base his ratings to picture alone and dont read the discussion at all. like for instance a person who is reading a magazine which actually dont read but just looking only on pictures...lol... he is kinda like that. Well anyway my advice is just ignore this kid and dont let yourself bothered by it. Its his opinion and just leave it if it is nonsense at all. Godbless!
• India
12 May 07
Dear cheenlly Thanks you so much for your explanation and your advice :)
@royal52gens (5488)
• United States
27 May 07
The response that you received from that member was indeed quite odd. I don't think he understood the question at all. I am glad to see that you handled it without getting mad and upset with him. He has only posted 19 times so he is not very experienced at this site. Maybe he will read the postings better in the future.
• India
27 May 07
Oh thanks buddy for sharing your comments :)
@subathra (3519)
• India
27 May 07
Very strange reply.But its not the true fact to mark someone with negative.i feel its the content which requires positive or negative marking.Its just our avatar ..we one can comment about that in the space provided in our profile page.
• India
27 May 07
Dear subathra Thanks for sharing your views .. I agree with you .. the reply was full of strangeness
• India
11 May 07
no buddy... ur pic is not vulgar at all... I think that someone might be rating you negative coz he might be jealous of you... That can be the only reason behind this... Otherwise i can't see any faults in ur discussions.. nor on the pic..
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• India
11 May 07
Oh so there are jealous people too on mylot .. but I have not done anything wrong to anyone .. but this is human's nature
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@kayrod2 (1304)
• Australia
13 May 07
Hi shine. I think your avator is real cute. I dont think it matters what you have, as long as it is not of bad taste. And this person who wrote negative, his is of very bad taste. The words above as well. I also noticed he a new user. Maybe he wont stay on long. If he is doing this to other people as well, he is only here to cause trouble. Well, best wishes to you, and dont let him get to you. You have friends on her that care for you, me being one of them. All the best
• India
13 May 07
Dear kayrod2 Thank you so much your support, care and nice words :)
• United States
12 May 07
I would hope that someone is not rating a person on their avatar. A rating should be based on content and quality.
• India
12 May 07
Thanks a lot sharing your views :)
@nannacroc (4049)
12 May 07
The person who answered you must have a twisted sort of mind. I looked at your avatar and wondered who painted such a lovely picture. As others have said, if people are rating you on your avatar, there's no point in trying to have a discussion with them.
• India
12 May 07
Dear nannacroc Thanks a lot for sharing your views :) .. you are right there's no point in trying to have discussion with them if they are rating us jsut for the sake of avatar.
@rosie_123 (6113)
12 May 07
OK - well I have looked at your avatar, and I don't see anything wrong with it at all. It is just two angels - and even if they're wings may not be very visible, that still makes it just two little boys. And for goodness sake - what the **** is wrong with the naked body anyway? It is normal and natural, and beautiful - especially children. You only have to look in the art world to see work like Michaelangelo's "David", or Rodin's "The Kiss". So please don't give this daft poster another thought! And his avatar is appalingly vulgar to British eyes - so why does he dare to criticise yours? Cheers.
• India
12 May 07
Dear rosie_123 Thanks for sharing your views :)
@friendship (2084)
• Canada
12 May 07
In my opinion, there is nothing wrong with your avatar. It is two little angels :-) Your avatar is cute. A person who thinks that it is too vulgar doesn't understand about arts. Perhaps, he is the one who has a dirty mind/vulgar (LOL)
• India
12 May 07
Thanks friend for sharing your views :)
@dlkuku (1935)
• United States
12 May 07
I hardly ever use the negative rating feature, only when absolutely necessary, and I think it's wrong and unfair to rate someone on their avatar. I only rate negative if someone cheats or is abusive to others.
• India
12 May 07
Dear dlkuku Thanks for sharing your views :)
@skbadhan (879)
• India
12 May 07
hi i don't thing so that your pictire is bad or something like that . and the idea of rating -ve just one don't like your picture is horrible ........
• India
12 May 07
Dear skbadhan Thank you so much for sharing your view point :)
@aniez0906 (263)
• Indonesia
12 May 07
i am so surprised bye post comment to you... no i am not think your picture bad...art can be everything...everything everything everything everything everything
• India
12 May 07
Dear aniez0906 Thanks you so much for your valuable response :)