What or who are you jealous of lol..Be honest..

Jealousy is a form of insecurity. What's to be jealous of? It's a negative response to someone's own inadequacey. Not a very flattering trait to have.

this leads to the only basic thing or part of you it seems that you are not really settled with what it is you really want from the life the God has entailed upon you. i am not extraordinary or anybody else in this world all of us go to the rest rooms. bathrooms and pee and poo..:) so be proud of yourself and determine to take control of your life.

Frankly, I'm really the jealous type of person. I could be jealous of just about anybody or everybody. I don't care if I'm prettier or richer, I always have this tendency to be jealous because I know that each person is unique in their own ways. I know that somebody out there will always be better than me at some thing and I'm always afraid that my boyfriend will figure that out and leave me. LOL. I guess I have a pretty low self-esteem.

lol it is said that the grass in others' fence is greener.sometimes when you think someone is better than you,maybe at the same time he/she is jealous of you.i think we all have our own traits and nobody else can replace us. sometimes i do envy other people,for example,i see your posts are 3898,but look at mine,lol,i even haven't got my first 500 posts.so when i planned to post 5 a day maybe will increase to 6 or more,you see,you helped a lot.

Yes, I have got one kind of persons to be jealous about. But the exact word I'd rather use is not "jealous", it should be "envy". I'm not good at social activity and can't communicate well with people around me because of my personality, so I envy those who can easily make friends.

honestly i get jelous when the people close to me accomplished the things i want to accomplished for myself

Friend, me too! I do remind myself, however, that this is only surface, and they may have troubles I do not know about. If I have the energy, I count my blessings and think about all of my "can do" and all I have learned from my hard lessons. I am older than you, and still unsettled. You are on a good track, though. Be sure to get rest when you can. I got to take a nap today with hubby. Some days we do not even see each other awake, our shifts are so weird. I needed the nap after yesterday.

I wouldn't call it jealousy (perhaps I'm just too crazy about myself to be jealous of anyone LOL) but I'd like to have a voice like you. And the ability not to sing out of tune, and to play guitar and piano! A bear (or was it an elephant) did step on my ear, and my mom was singing in opera choir in 50es. That's something I'm calling unjustess. As for beauty, luck and brains - it could be much worse, you know. And as for wealth - it will come, I'm absolutely sure. I've decided to die as a billionaire and make all my inheritors very-very happy LOL!

Honestly, I can't really think of anyone that I am jealous of. I mean, everyone has their own problems and their own stresses that they have to deal with. I don't think anyone leads a charmed life where everything is absolutely perfect all of the time. I would much rather be who I am with what I have, than be jealous of someone who leads the perfect life in public and then deals with their issues in private.

Don't get me started. I am so jealous of them that I think of killing them every night. You know, slicing them all up, putting them in my pot then gobbling them all done. LOL :P

yeah I'm jealous of people with nice families who seem to have it all figured out. They know where they're going and how to get there. They have support and a sense of self. I'm 41 too btw and I still don't know...

I am jealous of people who can manage to be organized. I am very lacking in that area no matter how hard I try. Wish they could pass some of their ability to me.

Hi, yanjiaren. Gernerally speaking, I am always feel jealous of those people who live a better life than I do. But not all of them. When I see a girl with my age got excellent job and make good money, I feel some jealous. Why does she got such a good life, so I want to learn something from her and make mine better.

sometimes i got jealous of those people that are wealthy, those who dont need to work... those who are blessed with a lot of things... but that wont help me... i know i could do better than that... ^_^

i feel jealous of south indian actress jo.. only for her i feel jealous nothing else and on no one i feel so!!!

I don't think I am really jealous of anyone. I admire some people who have an easy life and have everything they have always wanted. the only thing that bothers me is when people have a good life and they do nothing to deserve it or achieve it. I envy people who have all of the things you have mentioned above and it just makes me wander why they have such an easy way of life and I have to struggle for everything.

I know exactly how you feel!I have seen alot of people in my life have it real cush while I've had to struggle every step of the way.I do disagree with you in you saying they have brains...I look back at some of the things I've been through and know that the "cush people" I know couldn't have survived the situation for the fact is they couldn't have gotten the answer out of a book...lol Be encouraged bad times do not last forever & only aloow us to really appreciate the good times when they do come.Keep on trying & never give up!

I don't know, Yan. I grew up and realized my looks is more of a curse than an advantage to my life. I am not poor neither am I rich. I worked hard for my own money. I get jealous with all my friend's career success and achievement. They have their own businesses, a happy and loving spouse and wealth. I certainly didn't fall in any of this category.

I'm Jealous of intelligent & who make people with their work.I'm also jealous abt people who take life very easily, and go ahead.