What if the guy/ girl you're dating suddenly dumped you, what would you do?

I think if I really liked the guy I would definitely like an explanation, so as to not screw up in the future with someone else. But if it was someone that was just so-so or just hanging around I don't think it would really bother me

I would ask him what's up. What's the problem. If he still want out, I would accept it and move on.

Don't take it personally. Don't let it make you feel that you cant go looking or expecting the bad to happen again. Give yourself a little time to grieve and lick your wounds and then when you are ready, go out there and try again.

deffinatly 3! I would be absolutly devistated if he broke up with me because we are so strong together. Especially if he did it like that, i would brake down bad because it feels like he makes me whole. and i would be lost and like a part of me was missing without him.

Ive experienced that also... i was very upset but life must go on... if there's a chance that we could talk, ill ask him why... but if he continues to avoid me i wont waste my time looking out for him... reminiscing is just normal but eventually you'll get over it...

I would move on with my life and forget him becoz there will be no meaning in remembering him or recollecting or straightening things with such a mean person.After all no honest person will do that and if there is no honesty in a relationship then why should I continue doing things which he don't deserve?

well i would try and get her to tell me why that has happened but if i fail in that regard i bet i would move on without her and go on with my life. Someone things in life aint meant to be explained, all you got to do is to move on with your life

My typical reaction is to catch him for a normal or even a scandalous talking. I am a normal person who needs to know the reason for this dump. May be this is just a missunderstanding between us, but i need to know and to see if we can find a solvation.But if it`s a way for separation- i will treat this man as a cower and he will loose all my feelings and respect.So, it will be easier for me to ignore him and to forget him quickly.

things do not happen all at once we can see it happening but many a times we choose to ignore hoping things will get better, but when it doeshappen iwill get terribly depressed,withdraw into my shell for a long time,

Give him up, no question asked. However, there is always a reason why things happen. I will hunt him down to find out the reason BUT all will be over between us. It's no point trying to win someone over if his heart is no longer there BUT I will need to know why. Even a criminal in the execution ground will know why he is being executed.

Honestly,I have never experienced this.Well,if I encounter this thing,I will do something I like,and I won't care about the guy.It's okay.He has his own right to date with me or not.But I will not keep in touch with the guy,no matter whether he will send messages to me again.

i would try my best to forget her... though i know that's not a very easy job to do... but i think i would be able to do it.

i wud first try to reach out to her.. speak up wid her.. figure out the problem she has encountered!! if things r really goin wrong somewhere because of me! i'll apologize and try to convince her tht it wont happen again! but if its her decision due to sum reason i'll first try not to let her go! even then if she's reluctant, i will carry on my own life without her! coz sumthings in life need to b let go!

Hai friend, Upto me, U first of all think about that friend,Whether that friend is good worthy or not. Think of the reason, for what purpose he dumped from u. If the mistake is with you, find free to say sorry and u request ur friend again and again. Very soon ur friend will send u reply. If that friend is not worthy then u simply leave it. ok. Sri.

I would certainly want an explanation but even if I got one my pick would have to be number 2. My feeling about this would be if I am not wanted anymore then I certainly would not want her either. There is very little chance of reconciliation if someone dumps you out of the blue. And it is a good chance it has nothing to do with you but that person has found someone else that does it form them. To try to find things I had done wrong would be fruitless. It is already done and if they were just trying to get my attention they would let me know without dumping me.