if bad luck always happens to you, what should you do and feel?
By laiyongjun
@laiyongjun (1336)
China
May 11, 2007 7:22pm CST
people sometimes experience good luck,while sometimes have bad luck.so if bad luck always happen to you, what should you do and feel? thank you.
6 responses
@mymoney (106)
• India
12 May 07
We all have our share of Good luck and bad luck. Its always unexpected. With Good luck we will usually be happy for ourselves and hope many others would benefit like us too.
Bad luck hurts. But sometimes it teaches us many things in life and makes us an even better people. It helps us mature more emotionally.
I believe more on the Adage "WE CREATE OUR OWN LUCK".
Also, "LUCK FAVOURS THE PREPARED".
@laiyongjun (1336)
• China
12 May 07
thank you for replying.
we create our own luck.
luck favours the prepared.
thank you very much.
@zengguoxing (773)
• China
12 May 07
Oh,my friend,i'm sorry to tell that bad luck happened to me several times recently.For instance,i expressed my love to the girl i love for a long time,then the following thing you may know----i was refused by her only with a easy sentence "You are not fit for me." Then i felt depressed a lot.What should i do now is just forget the girl,i think.Bad luck as itself.
@laiyongjun (1336)
• China
12 May 07
i am so sorry to hear that you were failed to show love.
cheer up, guy,i think that is not a bad luck.
when the time is right, there will happen ,you will meet the girl who is your lover.
thank you very much.
@cheenlly (3476)
• Philippines
12 May 07
Hi! i also believe that everything that has happen to us has its purpose. so whether its good or bad luck it depends to us on how we handle it and accept it.We are just human and its normal for us to feel sad and happy whatever situation it is but for me whenever i felt im in bad luck i am trying to learn to think positively about everything and try to live right inspite of many difficulties in life. I have learn that we should need to change our mental habits to belief instead of disbelief. Learn to expect and not to doubt. In so doing we bring everything into the realm possibility but this does not mean that by believing we are necessarily going to get everything we want or think we want or we will have a good luck or badluck. Perhaps that would not be good for us. When we put trust in God. He guides our mind so that we do not wnat things that are not good for us or that are inharmonious with God's will. But it does definitely mean that when we learn to believe, then that which has seemingly been impossible moves into the area of the possible. Every great thing at last becomes for us a possiblity. HAve a nice day!
@laiyongjun (1336)
• China
12 May 07
thank you for replying.
it is a wonderful opinion.
i like it very much.
thank you very much.
@stacyv81 (5903)
• United States
12 May 07
try to think more positive, and laugh at yourself, do not take yourself so seriously, you'd be surprised, if you laugh or smile, even if forced, you will feel ten times better....bad things often happen in three's dont worry things will look up...Also, I am a "victim" of bad luck too, I just tell myself that I am just being set up for something really great to happen! =) Things will get better!
@laiyongjun (1336)
• China
12 May 07
thank you for replying, i am so glad to talk to you on mylot.hehe.i was so sorry to hear that your bad luck experiences. but i am happy to know that you are so positive for life. everything will be fine.thank you for your advice.
life is hope.maybe we couldn't change what had happen but we can control what will happen if we try.
@a_ce_e (1422)
• Philippines
12 May 07
if bad luck happen, actually always huh! i feel a bit depressed and disappointed, but i have no choice but to move on. I encouraged myself to keep on going, be optimistic and think that everything is temporary and there i will encounter a new one. So, i just smile and sometimes i just make fun of it. Make some jokes out of it.
@laiyongjun (1336)
• China
12 May 07
thank you for replying.
keeping smile on face, bad luck turns to good luck.
thank you very much.
@maemaemae (341)
• Philippines
12 May 07
I do not believe in luck...much more bad luck...i believe, everyrthing happens for a reason...things happening to you may not be very good but always remember, there is a reason for that...do not think of it as something against you but think of it as an opportunity to learn...also remember..
@laiyongjun (1336)
• China
12 May 07
hehe, thank you for replying.
i accept your opinion.
thank you very much.