A great lover?

I feel that perhaps having immense respect and immeasurable understanding of your partner will make you a great lover. This is quite obvious, since if you lack the necessary respect that your partner aptly deserves, then he will surely feel that you're not sensitive about his feelings. If you'll also consistently understand where he's coming from or if you know how to empathize with him, then your partner could very likely consider you as a great lover. Also, unconditional love and uncompromising care could possibly make you a great lover. If you could love your partner unconditionally and always care for him, then it is quite likely that your love will be reciprocated by your partner in the same manner. I feel that it is quite reasonable to say that anyone who could truly love unconditionally is a great lover. Making it a point to be physically and emotionally fit could likewise probably make one a great lover. If you could satisfy the basic human urges of your partner, without having any qualms or regrets about it, then I believe that you could probably be considered a great lover. Being there for him during his darkest hours, and making him realize that he can conquer anything if you'll face it together could probably also make you a great lover. However, I believe that in a truly loving relationship, it takes two to tango. In other words, you should not be expecting too much from your partner, if you could not reciprocate the love that he has for you. If you could fully offer yourselves to each other, I feel that you could both grow in your relationship and you could probably be great lovers of each other.